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We met at a local pub and a couple drinks, watched a band play and talked to an older couple next to us. We were laughing and having a good conversation. We walked around town and she was kinda bumping into me and touching me a lot, when we got to her car she gave me a close hug and pressed herself against me. I didn't move in for the kiss, but I could've.
I texted her when I got home the normal stuff, Had a great, hope to see you again, etc.
She responded well to that and even randomly texted me the next day asking me if I like to play golf. We went back and fourth a bit till I suggested we go to some course next weekend.
She hasn't responded to that one for two days now, I tried calling her too but didn't leave a VM. (Later that night I researched a few golf courses. Didn't mean to come on strong, but I love golf. I didn't even talk about it on the date.
Normally, I'm one to drop the ball in her court and forget about it. If she calls great, if not I'll move on. I kinda dig this chick though. She's really down to earth and kinda views the world the same as me.
What do ya think C-D, should I text her in a couple days?
I wouldn't contact her again. I hope she gives you a call soon and explains her absence.
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Yeah, I'll wait till Friday I suppose, but I'm gonna do it if she don't respond.
I've gotta send her at least a text if I get no response. She was sort of shy on the date, opened up later on. I'm normally a pretty aloof guy - my life will be fine either way.
One text, if it annoys her and I get nothing out of it, I'll delete the number and move on. She was pretty awesome.
If I had a girl who golfed and talked about going, I'd have gotten in my car and picked her up 5 minutes later. That'd be my dream.
Either way, if she's not responding or talking it means she's probably not too interested and nothing will change it. I'd plan on nothing happening, and even if it does I'd be skeptical. Women who are interested in you will rarely act that way. Of course there are always exceptions, but 95% percent of the time it's over in this case.
I could be wrong, just play it by ear.. but don't contact her any more. Let her talk to you.
Maybe she got really busy this week. I try to make plans for the end of the week by Wednesday or Thursday. Maybe she will call tomorrow. Just chill and wait.
I'm a woman. I respond pretty quickly/as soon as I can to calls/voicemails and texts whether I like someone or not....I just don't like wasting people's time, and I don't like playing games. But yes, sometimes life gets in the way.
come on everyone, 48 hours without a response to a text? It doesn't look good man
I just had the same experience but the only difference was she never responded to my first text LOL
atleast you got a "wanna play golf?"
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