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Like most men, I actually prefer a girl with a big butt. The problem is that those big teardrop shaped bottoms that look so hot when a girl is younger are typically an indication that a girl is going to get bigger as she ages. Jenifer Lopez still looks amazing because she's got the time and money to keep that thing in business, but most normal women start to lose their bodies in their 30's. If J-lo was just some normal lady, she would still have a great bottom, but she wouldn't have that flat stomach to go with it anymore.
I understand your reasoning, I just disagree with it! Big butts for me, please, even if it means she's going to get bigger in the future.
Like most men, I actually prefer a girl with a big butt. The problem is that those big teardrop shaped bottoms that look so hot when a girl is younger are typically an indication that a girl is going to get bigger as she ages. Jenifer Lopez still looks amazing because she's got the time and money to keep that thing in business, but most normal women start to lose their bodies in their 30's. If J-lo was just some normal lady, she would still have a great bottom, but she wouldn't have that flat stomach to go with it anymore.
I agree. And "most normal women" don't begin to lose their figures in their 30's. Unless they've had kids or eat junk food and don't exercise. The gyms are full of shapely 30-something and 40-something women maintaining their trim figures. Times have changed so much since the middle of the last century! Women stay in shape far longer these days.
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This is the spear counterpart to the other thread.
Guys what is it about a woman that tells you not to pursue any further?
Or
Are you the type of guy who doesn't care about her behavior or attitude as long as she's hot?
- Displaying signs of being bubbly. (that would irritate me)
- Saying "I cannot wait to be a mother" (Sorry childfree guy here)
- Saying "oh God is good" (No religion zone)
- Using the terms of baby daddy or momma (ghetto which I don't tolerate)
7) Always having drama. As in always having some issue with a friend, a relative, a co-worker, a boss, the power company, the repair shop, the landlord, you name it. If a person is always having drama, it means that she isn't managing her life.
This is an excellent point. The question for this is can this lack of managing ones life be corrected or are they relegated to being a rudderless ship the rest of their lives?
I agree. And "most normal women" don't begin to lose their figures in their 30's. Unless they've had kids or eat junk food and don't exercise. The gyms are full of shapely 30-something and 40-something women maintaining their trim figures. Times have changed so much since the middle of the last century! Women stay in shape far longer these days.
Sure there are big women who let themselves go-
there's also overweight guys who don't care either about their health or appearance.
I'll never be one of them.
I've always been a health nut, working out since a young teen all the way to now, & honestly it feels amazing doing hot yoga w/ 20 something year old girls who can't keep up
That's the other thing- there's a lot of people in their 20's who are more out of shape than people in their 40's.
Only on C-D do I see this type of ignorance, though
They have something nasty to say about your manhood because you drink from a straw.
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Big butts for me, please, even if it means she's going to get bigger in the future.
