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OP, you are always equating looking at women in public with looking at pictures of women for sexual arousal and that looking at pictures of women is your "sexuality."
Are you getting sexually aroused by staring at these women? Do you do it for erotic thrills?
What do you mean "believe"? If it bothers anyone here, there's a good chance it will bother others out in the "real world". I thought that's what you wanted to know, whether or not some would be offended by your staring at them "only" for three seconds. Apparently there are people who don't want you checking them out, regardless of how long you do it. So... why are so intent on staring at random women anyway?
I've said if it's unreasonable for someone to be bothered by being looked at for less than 3 full seconds, then I shouldn't be expected to predict ahead of time who will or will not be bothered, but should stop if I see that they are bothered.
I think people on this thread have a misconception of what I'm doing.
I think my worst tendency is to glance briefly too many times. I really don't stare unless I know they can't see me, and even that is not common for me.
And that didn't make you second-guess this habit at all...
You don't know what it's like to have never dated. I doubt she was more than a little uncomfortable. She shouldn't have had her shirt falling off her shoulder practically in a public library computer lab anyways
You don't know what it's like to have never dated. I doubt she was more than a little uncomfortable. She shouldn't have had her shirt falling off her shoulder practically in a public library computer lab anyways
I see. It was her fault. She "made" you look. That little ****.
Davros, what would happen if you just decided not to stare at strangers anymore? How would your life be affected negatively?
None of us understands your motivation in trying to get away with staring at women as long as possible without getting caught. What IS that about? What do you gain and is it worth getting labeled a creep on occasion?
Voyeurism is where you look at things you shouldn't be looking at. It has nothing to do with me. Try again, armchair psychologist and profiler.
To answer your question, I simply admire their beauty.
Children are lovely and interesting creatures as well. How long do you stare at them to "admire their beauty"? You could probably get away with much longer than 3 seconds since they kids are less likely to notice.
I don't think its the second that matters more than HOW and WHO is staring, that makes it more creepy than it is. Stares like you've never seen a woman before and those of appreciating beauty give off different vibes. Being attractive also helps make you less creepy than someone who is not.
BTW it's a flatter if the guy is attractive, but if his stare gets busy with every cute girl he walks pass that's desperate. Desperate is creepy, so is your habit... Have some self decipline and stop being obssessed. Nobody wants to date a guy who keeps staring at other women.
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That little ****.
