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Men who are childless generally have very little experience with children, and your children are yours and another man's, and not his. This alone means that he will not love your children the way you love your children. That's a difficult situation, no matter how one wishes to sugarcoat it. I think it's like looking for a needle in a haystack to find a childless man who will treat another man's child as well as that child's parents will treat the child. That's what I'm trying to say. It's a reality.
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Originally Posted by Faith2187
Your opinion, which is irrelevant since he is clearly knows my situation and made the decision to date me regardless. Though I've already said in several threads, that if I were a single childless man I wouldn't date a single mom either for a variety of reasons, but the men that chose to obviously are grown enough to make their decisions, are they not? Beyond that, me being a single mom, has no relevance to this thread, since this "friend" will never come near my son, be introduced or anything of that nature--he's someone I'm having fun with, nothing serious. Relax.
Men who are childless generally have very little experience with children, and your children are yours and another man's, and not his. This alone means that he will not love your children the way you love your children. That's a difficult situation, no matter how one wishes to sugarcoat it. I think it's like looking for a needle in a haystack to find a childless man who will treat another man's child as well as that child's parents will treat the child. That's what I'm trying to say. It's a reality.
That's irrelevant. She is NOT going to introduce the guy to her child, probably ever. She is looking for a FWB.
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Men who are childless generally have very little experience with children, and your children are yours and another man's, and not his. This alone means that he will not love your children the way you love your children. That's a difficult situation, no matter how one wishes to sugarcoat it. I think it's like looking for a needle in a haystack to find a childless man who will treat another man's child as well as that child's parents will treat the child. That's what I'm trying to say. It's a reality.
And it is not relevant to this thread.... I'm not looking for a relationship or a guy to raise my son or love him. He will never meet my child. Beyond that even if I was looking for a relationship with a childless man, I understand the complications. My mother was a single mom who married my dad and had three children with him. I also know plenty of single moms, friends and family, who have remarried and went on with their lives with men that accepted and treated the other child as their own. If I ever let a man in my child's life it would he because I knew that he would accept my child and my situation. This current "friend" is a friend, so me being a single mom has no real relevance to the question I asked when I started this thread.
Men who are childless generally have very little experience with children, and your children are yours and another man's, and not his. This alone means that he will not love your children the way you love your children. That's a difficult situation, no matter how one wishes to sugarcoat it. I think it's like looking for a needle in a haystack to find a childless man who will treat another man's child as well as that child's parents will treat the child. That's what I'm trying to say. It's a reality.
This makes me think you need to hang around a better class of men.
Me? I don't have kids. Therefore I don't have an will-he-accept-like-and-not-be-mean-to-MY-kids issue.
It is a biological truth that no one can love a kid the way the parents can.
I would agree, but once again, that is not pertinent to this thread and it shouldn't derail it.
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When will woman learn? If they pass there VAG out like Halloween candy once we all ready eat the candy it on to the next . On the other hand if you told me I could get the good candy but i had to walk 5 miles up a hill both ways it better be same darn good candy.
I would agree, but once again, that is not pertinent to this thread and it shouldn't derail it.
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Therefore I don't have an will-he-accept-like-and-not-be-mean-to-MY-kids issue. 
