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Old 06-15-2014, 02:54 PM
 
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My boyfriend likes or follows other women's Instagram pictures and I get very jealous. These women aren't even attractive, but it still makes me feel very insecure. Why do I feel this way. I also look better than my boyfriend, but I still love him anyway.
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Old 06-15-2014, 03:40 PM
 
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"My boyfriend likes or follows other women's Instagram pictures and I get very jealous. These women aren't even attractive, but it still makes me feel very insecure. Why do I feel this way. I also look better than my boyfriend, but I still love him anyway."

A little full of yourself aren't ya?

I can already tell you are an insecure/shallow person if you think you are above someone you love appearance wise.

I feel bad for your boyfriend in all honesty. If this is even real.

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Old 06-15-2014, 03:58 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I also look better than my boyfriend, but I still love him anyway.
How generous of you.
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Old 11-25-2014, 09:15 AM
 
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Don't blame you.you should ask him about it-why he does it,how it makes you feel,how he would feel if you did the same etc. some guys are so dense they don't even think about how it would make a girl feel. I also think it's pathetic so many girls/ women put up instagram pics of themselves in bikinis and underwear deliberately so they can get attention from guys. You should also ask him how he'd feel if you set up your instagram with "modeling " shots so tons of men can follow and like you -if he says he wouldn't care -do it! I bet you he would care then and actually see how it feels when the shoe is on the other foot.
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Old 11-25-2014, 09:36 AM
 
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hehehe
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Old 11-25-2014, 09:48 AM
 
Location: Spokane, Washington
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My boyfriend likes or follows other women's Instagram pictures and I get very jealous. These women aren't even attractive, but it still makes me feel very insecure. Why do I feel this way. I also look better than my boyfriend, but I still love him anyway.
So much of your winning personality is showing through this post. Maybe your boyfriend see's something in these women that you aren't showing...like compassion, empathy, confidence and kindness?
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Old 11-25-2014, 09:58 AM
 
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You say the women aren't attractive, maybe not to you but maybe they are to him. Also I think oftentimes women don't like their bf to like other women but if they do like other women they want them to like other women similar to women like them.

I look...ALOT.. and my gf knows and says your a guy I know. Occasionaly she'll make a comment like why don't you watch porn with women who look like me? Really, I'm supposed to browse porn loking for a clone of my gf.

Also, another thing, many times guys just are attracted to a women showing skin. There's many a butterface I've pinned on pinterest who I don't really even find attractive but has big boobs and is showing a lot of skina nd my finger is just like magnetically drawn to the pin button.

Heck thats the only reason I'm on pinterest is for a board full ofs exy womens pics.
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Old 11-25-2014, 10:41 AM
 
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First post. Oh yea, definitely legit.
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Old 11-25-2014, 10:46 AM
 
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I don't know, it seems to me that if he wanted to be with one of them, he would. If you can honestly say that he's not the type to cheat on you and it's something you know, then you have nothing to worry about. If he is the type to cheat, or you just don't trust him, then it's not a good relationship.
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Old 11-25-2014, 11:16 AM
 
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the op exactly likes my friend, and you know what my friend did to her husband, CHEAT. I'm not suggesting that you're a cheater, but at the same time, you're full of yourself.
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