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Yeah. people think you say you're too good for average guys. But hell, you may not be attracting average. The guys you turn down could be no-good, not average. And in which case, anyone to fault you for that is full of tripe. And sometimes with looks, it's not them personally, but how they carry themselves.
Like a guy could be cute as hell. But if he's got on tons of jewelry and chains, gold teeth, and pants sagging, that's someone that's no good. They carry on like a thug, and unless it's a lowdown, desperate, ghetto, or thug woman, then that's not cute. Or a woman just looking for a bad boy for hot sex, or settling.
Like Trapped in the Closet. I think Twan is hot as hell. But he's a thug, so yeah, I find him hot, and love to see him in TitC. But I wouldn't date a guy like him. No-good and asking trouble, even though he's hot.
Yeah. people think you say you're too good for average guys. But hell, you may not be attracting average. The guys you turn down could be no-good, not average. And in which case, anyone to fault you for that is full of tripe. And sometimes with looks, it's not them personally, but how they carry themselves.
Like a guy could be cute as hell. But if he's got on tons of jewelry and chains, gold teeth, and pants sagging, that's someone that's no good. They carry on like a thug, and unless it's a lowdown, desperate, ghetto, or thug woman, then that's not cute. Or a woman just looking for a bad boy for hot sex, or settling.
Like Trapped in the Closet. I think Twan is hot as hell. But he's a thug, so yeah, I find him hot, and love to see him in TitC. But I wouldn't date a guy like him. No-good and asking trouble, even though he's hot.
I have only ever had the chance to turn down two men in my life. The one was very drunk and attractive but he asked me if I wanted to give him oral in the parking lot of a bar. The other was what you would call average, but I blew that b/c I thought he was trying to sell me products. Plus he told me i was 'mildly attractive' and I really didn't view that as a compliment but anyways I blew it. That's all I've had so far. I agree that it's not all about look sometimes it's the way they dress, doesn't have to be spectacular but they don't wear clothes that fit right.
I have only ever had the chance to turn down two men in my life. The one was very drunk and attractive but he asked me if I wanted to give him oral in the parking lot of a bar. The other was what you would call average, but I blew that b/c I thought he was trying to sell me products. Plus he told me i was 'mildly attractive' and I really didn't view that as a compliment but anyways I blew it. That's all I've had so far. I agree that it's not all about look sometimes it's the way they dress, doesn't have to be spectacular but they don't wear clothes that fit right.
Good. You SHOULD have turned them both down.
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I just just can't imagine doing that.I need love and affection. NO never tried it.
I understand. I would love to have those things too but I don't think that's going to happen for me. I'm not sure I'd have the balls to seek out a male escort anyway. Just curious though.
Well, I was told that 'mildly attractive' was good enough and I should've given him a chance, but that made me feel bad instead of good.
If a situation makes you feel bad, then it's not for you.
Introspection will help you determine whether you are being unreasonable, or not.
It is never healthy to do something that makes you feel bad.
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I just can't see how a woman has it hard. Most of them can have a man by the snap of their fingers.
I'd love to meet these mythical women..
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Originally Posted by VanillaChocolate
Yeah. people think you say you're too good for average guys. But hell, you may not be attracting average. The guys you turn down could be no-good, not average. And in which case, anyone to fault you for that is full of tripe. And sometimes with looks, it's not them personally, but how they carry themselves.
Like a guy could be cute as hell. But if he's got on tons of jewelry and chains, gold teeth, and pants sagging, that's someone that's no good. They carry on like a thug, and unless it's a lowdown, desperate, ghetto, or thug woman, then that's not cute. Or a woman just looking for a bad boy for hot sex, or settling.
Like Trapped in the Closet. I think Twan is hot as hell. But he's a thug, so yeah, I find him hot, and love to see him in TitC. But I wouldn't date a guy like him. No-good and asking trouble, even though he's hot.
It's a shame, there are a lot of great looking guys with saggy pants.
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