Leaving my wife due to infertility (gays, child, pregnancy, advice)
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I'm dead serious. I don't want to deal with a biological failure.
And how do you know your offspring won't be a "biological failure"? If you are so concerned with that, it makes more sense to adopt a child. You know exactly what you are getting when you adopt...it's a crap-shot when you have your own.
I think that if she can't give you what you want, you should let her go to find someone more suited to her.
Leaving a spouse and having a fund "in case the marriage didn't work" seems as though you went into it expecting not to put forth any effort.
Just remember that having kids with anyone opens you up to paying child support.
I understand if you think I am being too unfair and negative. I am just confused why you would have a committed relationship when anyone could be infertile - including YOU.
Did you discuss the importance of kids before you were married? Did you tell her (prior to marriage) that infertility is a deal-breaker?
Has she been tested or are you assuming that it's the female's issue?
She can't have kids, I don't want to have to pay for fake kids so I'm going to divorce her. I have a slush fund in case the marriage went south and will concede the house to her. Thoughts?
And how do you know your offspring won't be a "biological failure"? If you are so concerned with that, it makes more sense to adopt a child. You know exactly what you are getting when you adopt...it's a crap-shot when you have your own.
Adopted kids are damaged goods and they are fake kids. Only sterile failures would ever adopt.
I think that if she can't give you what you want, you should let her go to find someone more suited to her.
Leaving a spouse and having a fund "in case the marriage didn't work" seems as though you went into it expecting not to put forth any effort.
Just remember that having kids with anyone opens you up to paying child support.
I understand if you think I am being too unfair and negative. I am just confused why you would have a committed relationship when anyone could be infertile - including YOU.
Did you discuss the importance of kids before you were married? Did you tell her (prior to marriage) that infertility is a deal-breaker?
Has she been tested or are you assuming that it's the female's issue?
LOL, as nice of you as it is, I wouldn't bother giving real advice in this thread.....
no I'm not I need to find a more useful woman. I'm stuck with a useless one.
Noooo. SHE is the one who is stuck. LOL
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