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As a general rule, you have a better chance at blowing a woman's mind if you spend the time establishing an emotional connection with her first before sex.
i have dated women like that. once i pointed out to them that nothing happened that they didnt want to happen, they realized that i wouldnt push them into anything they dont want, and that is what she is really after, your response to her complaint.
she says that she really didn't appreciate making out or having sex the first night. It was actually the second night we saw each other. She told me on Monday night that she didn't want to have sex that night, but I told her that we both wanted sex when we were there because if she didn't want to do anything, she would have told me when I was there and I wouldn't have done anything with her and I would have left. If she didn't want to have sex with me, she would have told me to leave after we finished talking and refused to have me spend the night, she wouldn't have taken her clothes and let me have foreplay with her, let me have sex with her, and she wouldn't have climbed on top of me the next morning when I was naked and had sex with me! She was not drunk and not drugged. Nothing like that. If she had refused to do anything, I wouldn't have done anything with her and I would have left. If she didn't want to have sex, then why did she approve when I asked if I could sleep over? Why did she take her clothes off when we were in her bedroom and have sex with me twice? If she had said that she didn't want to do anything or if she had refused anything, I would have left after we had finished talking about stuff in her living room. She never said that she didn't want to have sex when I was there. It was the day after I left when she told me that she didn't appreciate it and she didn't want to have sex. I am very enraged and upset that someone can act like that when we both were fine with everything that night!
Problem: You are pu$$y-whipped.
Solution: Have multiple women you know who are open to sex. That way next time she starts saying something outside of what position she wants, you say then dial someone else.
Not to toot my own horn, I should get a nobel prize for this solution.
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she says that she really didn't appreciate making out or having sex the first night. It was actually the second night we saw each other. She told me on Monday night that she didn't want to have sex that night, but I told her that we both wanted sex when we were there because if she didn't want to do anything, she would have told me when I was there and I wouldn't have done anything with her and I would have left. If she didn't want to have sex with me, she would have told me to leave after we finished talking and refused to have me spend the night, she wouldn't have taken her clothes and let me have foreplay with her, let me have sex with her, and she wouldn't have climbed on top of me the next morning when I was naked and had sex with me! She was not drunk and not drugged. Nothing like that. If she had refused to do anything, I wouldn't have done anything with her and I would have left. If she didn't want to have sex, then why did she approve when I asked if I could sleep over? Why did she take her clothes off when we were in her bedroom and have sex with me twice? If she had said that she didn't want to do anything or if she had refused anything, I would have left after we had finished talking about stuff in her living room. She never said that she didn't want to have sex when I was there. It was the day after I left when she told me that she didn't appreciate it and she didn't want to have sex. I am very enraged and upset that someone can act like that when we both were fine with everything that night!
I'd be like, well sorry about your damn luck but what's done is done, then end the convo.
So she thought, 'Boy he is terrible. Maybe he was just drunk, I'll try again in the morning. Nope. He just stinks at it. I will not sugar coat it. I will say I regretted his sex.'
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then dial someone else. 
