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Old 06-29-2014, 06:30 AM
 
Location: Pa
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According to my son any girl who is not a skank is usually ugly and therefore not worth his time.
Your son is confused.It's a low-life, dirty, slutty, trailer park, no morals, bar hopping, man hopping, druggie, alcholic or poor trashy women.
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Old 06-29-2014, 06:37 AM
 
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Your son sounds like a smart young man. I know you're proud!
2300 on his SAT and 3.7 gpa. His assertion is that "ugly girls" are not worth his time.
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Old 06-29-2014, 06:39 AM
 
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Your son is confused.It's a low-life, dirty, slutty, trailer park, no morals, bar hopping, man hopping, druggie, alcholic or poor trashy women.
I told him that but according to him that eliminates most desirable women.
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Old 06-29-2014, 06:41 AM
 
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I told him that but according to him that eliminates most desirable women.
My son better never tell me he digs the skanky girls.*Barf*
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Old 06-29-2014, 06:42 AM
 
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Maybe he's going after the wrong type then. If being real and genuine isn't good enough for a woman, maybe she's not good enough for him. If he has to force himself to be someone or something he's not in order to get her, she's not worth his time or effort.
i just want a real woman who is loyal, and honest. Those things seem very hard to find now adays. Most girls i know will leave or cheat on a good man for another guy with more money or a slick tounge in a heartbeat.
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Old 06-29-2014, 06:46 AM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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i just want a real woman who is loyal, and honest. Those things seem very hard to find now adays. Most girls i know will leave or cheat on a good man for another guy with more money or a slick tounge in a heartbeat.
You don't get that type by "running game" my friend. By definition, the types who make you "run game" are not real, loyal and honest. Keep looking. Don't give in and revert back to "running game." Be yourself and be persistent. Good things will come around, and probably when you least expect it.
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Old 06-29-2014, 06:47 AM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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2300 on his SAT and 3.7 gpa. His assertion is that "ugly girls" are not worth his time.
Color me unimpressed. Anyone can pass a few classes. Smart and "intelligent" are not the same thing. You son may be smart, but...
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Old 06-29-2014, 06:56 AM
 
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Color me unimpressed. Anyone can pass a few classes. Smart and "intelligent" are not the same thing. You son may be smart, but...
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Old 06-29-2014, 09:21 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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This is a straw man dichotomy, deep from the aching heart of a "nice guy".
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Old 06-29-2014, 10:13 AM
 
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if I don't initially game them they don't become my girl in the first place. Every woman I've ever been genuine with turned into a monster. The only "good" relationships I've ever had was ones where I was controlling there mind or emotions.

idk why but if I'm not controlling them they try to control me or act like the man in the relationship.
You're not imagining things. Women's minds are crazy, unstable places. Particularly so in their 20's when they're the most enticing to look at, yet the most awful to put up with. One of natures many cruel jokes. They grow out it to some extent, but this is a hard life lesson that guys just have suck up and accept about women. You can't really ever be "genuine" or "yourself" with them - they're not attracted to who you are. They're attracted to what you are. If you could just be yourself and have women love you for it, things would be easy, but that's not how it works with them and you already know this from experience. There's always a script to follow and a tight rope balancing act to walk with a woman. You either accept that and take the bad with the good, or don't play with them at all.
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