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Old 06-28-2014, 04:16 PM
 
Location: FAIRFAX, VA
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I'll admit I'm weak. I have been single for a long while and pains me more when a guy cancels on me. Or rejects me. I feel miserable. Lonely and depressed. More like doomed i'll never find someone to love me. I don't want to die alone. I just want these feelings and emotions leave me.
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Old 06-28-2014, 04:24 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Foolproof? No.
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Old 06-28-2014, 04:25 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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The men in black might be able to help out... They could bust out that little flashy stick thingy that they had.
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Old 06-28-2014, 04:26 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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OP, you're a mom, right?

Focus on that.
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Old 06-28-2014, 04:32 PM
 
Location: FAIRFAX, VA
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OP, you're a mom, right?

Focus on that.
Right..this I know and have been focusing on it for past 5 years. Your comment was not helpful.
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Old 06-28-2014, 04:37 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Your comment was not helpful.
What exactly do you think people here are going to tell you?

And what SPECIFICALLY are you asking? Because forgetting about a certain person is different from getting rid of lonely feelings.

If it's someone you hate, it's harder to forget. You do have to forgive them to forget them.

If it's someone you love, erase all evidence, force yourself to think about something else the minute they come into your head, and stay busy.
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Old 06-28-2014, 04:38 PM
 
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It's very difficult to erase someone from your memory. I'm speaking from personal experience.

I've met a lot of people in my life from going to 12 schools from Kindergarten up to college and grad commencement. Once you form any type of memory with someone, it's hard to forget that because it had some meaning to you at the time and it stayed with you. Only if they truly meant nothing to your life, you can forget them.

I still remember people from 10-20 years ago and I'd rather forget some people I've met and some of the awful experience I had with them, but I can't.

They keep coming back, but I try not to let it bother me. I still go to work, go out with new people I've met and try to have a good time without thinking too much about people I want to forget. If I don't have to talk about people from my past, then I won't. Not talking about them and not thinking about them if I don't have to has helped me focus on what's more important and feel (generally) happier.
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Old 06-28-2014, 04:43 PM
 
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boohoo and all that. The short answer is No. there arent any promises. you chose the wrong lifeform if you thought it came with accessories. Sorry. Be someone you like and maybe someone else will want to be with that person. Or you could do something totally radical, like heal the sick or help others...dunno, just throwing that out there.
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Old 06-28-2014, 04:49 PM
 
Location: FAIRFAX, VA
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boohoo and all that. The short answer is No. there arent any promises. you chose the wrong lifeform if you thought it came with accessories. Sorry. Be someone you like and maybe someone else will want to be with that person. Or you could do something totally radical, like heal the sick or help others...dunno, just throwing that out there.
I do help people. What life form are you talking about
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Old 06-28-2014, 04:54 PM
 
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Pretend they are dead/no longer exist for you to go out with.
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