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YES call her or can all of your friends have a bar- b-que and make sure they tell Rachael (I think that's her name) to be there, too. Group settings are always good for this type of situation where it seems there may have been some miss connections.
I hope you do find a way to connect with her, also, may sound a out-of-date, but what about sending her a little bouquet of flowers to her asking if she would like to go out and also say something like we may have had a miss connection, would be great to see you
I hope you do something to try and see this girl again. You'll never know if you don't try. I'm much older and in my circle of lifelong friends there are stories like this about the one that got away . . . and why didn't I just call her . . .
There is no time like the present, you sound like a nice guy and I hope this works out for you ~ Blessings
YES call her or can all of your friends have a bar- b-que and make sure they tell Rachael (I think that's her name) to be there, too. Group settings are always good for this type of situation where it seems there may have been some miss connections.
I hope you do find a way to connect with her, also, may sound a out-of-date, but what about sending her a little bouquet of flowers to her asking if she would like to go out and also say something like we may have had a miss connection, would be great to see you
I hope you do something to try and see this girl again. You'll never know if you don't try. I'm much older and in my circle of lifelong friends there are stories like this about the one that got away . . . and why didn't I just call her . . .
There is no time like the present, you sound like a nice guy and I hope this works out for you ~ Blessings
Cbeech80 --- Go ahead and give her a call. You have a long life ahead of you and you have an opportunity to get to know this girl better. As was said before by Ruth, just call her. You will be glad you did.
I don't understand this excuse that too much time has passed, especially since she expressed interest in you to a mutual friend. How much time is "too much" time? Who determines that, her or you, OP? Why are you looking for excuses NOT to call her, if you're into her?
None of it makes any sense from a woman's point of view. And, may I remind you--she's a woman?
I don't understand this excuse that too much time has passed, especially since she expressed interest in you to a mutual friend. How much time is "too much" time? Who determines that, her or you, OP? Why are you looking for excuses NOT to call her, if you're into her?
None of it makes any sense from a woman's point of view. And, may I remind you--she's a woman?
I wonder if there's a bit of self-projection going on here. First she's a ho sleeping around with 5 guys, and now she's not interested. Haha. I kiiiid!! (He's probably got chicks lining up the block in every corner and Rachel is the only one on his mind?)
OP- your story is a sweet story. You're making a HUGE mistake for assuming and thinking your assumptions to be true.
Logic here:
She + You = Green + Go
You + 2 months? + ph number + no call = No chance. Duh!!
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You can, but you messed up big time. I give you a low possibility now.
Take this as a learning experience. Stop being a teenage girl, make a move on who you're interested in.
I agree with burgler09. If she likes him, she would have called him by now. She might have a boyfriend or something by now.
On the other hand, I am speaking as someone who has nothing but negative or, at best, neutral experiences with women discovering he has feelings for them.
I agree with burgler09. If she likes him, she would have called him by now. She might have a boyfriend or something by now.
On the other hand, I am speaking as someone who has nothing but negative or, at best, neutral experiences with women discovering he has feelings for them.
SHE would have called HIM? He's the one who got HER number. She may not even have his number. She may be thinking he'll call, especially if the mutual friend told her he was asking about her.
aaaauuuuughhhhhh! :headbang: It's amazing the human race manages to reproduce, ever!
(Please don't give the following kind of advice advice! C'mon)
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I agree with burgler09. If she likes him, she would have called him by now. She might have a boyfriend or something by now.
On the other hand, I am speaking as someone who hasnothing but negative or, at best, neutral experiences with women discovering he has feelings for them.
Obviously.
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or can all of your friends have a bar- b-que and make sure they tell Rachael (I think that's her name) to be there, too. Group settings are always good for this type of situation where it seems there may have been some miss connections.
Just give her a call.
