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I go through a lot of emotional torment when trying to get over someone I like, I am terrified at how I would feel if it was someone I was in love with. I'm really afraid of just becoming someone I am not/was never meant to be or someone I really don't want to be. It also takes me a long time to move on from one person to the next.
The whole "idea" of love seems nice, but the real thing could be very different. I am not opposed to seeing what it feels like, because I have never felt it before. I am just not sure I would handle the loss of it. I imagine you have be an incredibly strong individual to handle the real thing.
Either way I am not concerned about it at the moment. I don't believe it'll happen for a very long time for me. When/if it happens, I will cross that bridge when I come to it.
an interesting book on the topic, detailing many different personality types and why they don't/can't establish relationships ... "The Dance-Away Lover" articles by numerous authors, available at amazon and other retailers.
IMO, well worth the read to understanding personality types, even if some of it is just "pop psychology".
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