Older women Younger man (girlfriend, marrying, love, Chinese)

[triniboy]

I am in a relationship such as this and was wondering the thoughts of all the interested reader. Mostly looking for comments from the women. Guys are free to respond as well but I`m just curious to see what are on the minds of the ladies. My finacee is 39 and I`m 26 but a cultured and island matured man. Not the regular 26 year old that some fo you migth think is too young.

[Tone509]

There was a similar thread posted here recently. In fact, it is still on the same page as this one as I write this.

[triniboy]

But that is Older men with Younger men. Why can`t I start thiso ne? Just asking.

[Tzaphkiel]

I think it's personal preference. I have ALWAYS dated people older than myself. Once I dated someone younger for about 15 minutes and it felt just too weird. I think it's personal preference, you know what floats your boat, she knows what turns her on, as long as you're happy. My cousin a man always dated older women, and ended up marrying one, she is rich, he is happy, and all her women friends (she is now in her 60's he is in his 40's) are really quite jealous she has this young studly guy around. Works well for both of them. Just do what makes you happy, rather than what other people think.

[miu]

triniboy - As long as the two of you are happy with each other, that's all that matters. You are both mature adults, end of story. No other comments as you really haven't told us very much about the whole situation.

[triniboy]

I am happy and I do love her. Soemtimes I can see the looks from black women with a disgusted look but she doesn`t look old, just mature. I am a good looking guy and she attractive and we`ve been told numberous of occassions how much of a good couple we make but sometimes I do wonder what she`d look like younger and if she were younger if I would feel pressured, not from her but like friends and other ppl that we meet.

Ppl don`t say anything but sometimes you can tell they are thinking something but your right I should not let others try to make me feel uncomfortable.

I too wanted to hear from other women what they thought.

[miu]

Originally Posted by triniboy

I too wanted to hear from other women what they thought.

Well I'm a 49 year old Chinese woman with a 26 year old white male. I don't recall getting dirty looks from anyone when we are out together. And on the other hand, when I am with him, I'm also not looking at other people. What kind of places are you at when you feel that you get these dirty looks? While you are with your girlfriend, are you possibly looking at other women too much? Maybe those other women are thinking that you are looking at them too much like you are shopping for another woman to escort?

Sometimes, in feeling too self conscious about a situation, you can end up getting more attention than if you were more relaxed about it.

And is your girlfriend also black? Or is she some other race?

[triniboy]

She is white an she is my fiancee. You might be right. Maybe sometmes I do pay it too much attention. I will try to be a little more relaced which I think I am but I am sometimes tensed.

[miu]

Originally Posted by triniboy

Soemtimes I can see the looks from black women with a disgusted look but she doesn`t look old, just mature.

So these disgusted looks are only coming from black women and your girlfriend is white? Maybe these black women are upset because you are with a white woman rather than a black one. Anyway, just a wild guess here.

[Tzaphkiel]

Originally Posted by miu

Well I'm a 49 year old Chinese woman with a 26 year old white male.

You go girl! Rock on miu !!!! I'd say in general most women would be reaaaaaaaly quite envious!!!