Why should i care about how a guy treats his Mom? (marriage, women)

[MeganNYC]

Their relationship has nothing to do with our relationship. If he refuses to associate with his mom then no mother in law.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by MeganNYC

Their relationship has nothing to do with our relationship. If he refuses to associate with his mom then no mother in law.

Wrong.

But I don't expect you really want to hear that.

[hawaiiancoconut]

Typically, a man that treats her mom disrespectfully, tends to treat the women in his life the same way.

[Chowhound]

When you marry, you marry the family.

Good, bad, or indifferent.

[Me007gold]

If he treats his mom bad, imagine how bad he will treat you in a few years

[MeganNYC]

Originally Posted by Me007gold

If he treats his mom bad, imagine how bad he will treat you in a few years

You don't know his motives for treating his mom that way. I dated a guy who didn't talk to his mom due to her remarriage and it was fine.

[Chowhound]

Why bother with the thread then.

You've clearly made your mind up... wondering why you're wasting server space?????

[ChessieMom]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

Why bother with the thread then.

You've clearly made your mind up... wondering why you're wasting server space?????

This.

[Dewdroplet76]

Is there a question here or are you just sharing?

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

When you marry, you marry the family.

Good, bad, or indifferent.

Always amazes me how many people don't get this - at least not until it's too late