What Weird Stuff Is Husband Doing? (calling, definition, people, free)
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Some of you idiots do not understand so I will say again:
I never bothered my husband with his porn or masturbating UNTIL he got a text from a hooker. Then I felt sort of blindsided at that point and went crazy on the investigating.
I did not henpeck him first which caused him to go do these things. Of course if I was a big b$&@& and always hassled him I would not blame him to get frustrated and seek other relief.
It may be hard to believe but I am SO not a henpecking nosey b&$@&. I trusted him 100% all of the time. I just happened to notice he was the one acting weird so I went CSI and started looking around. That is when I found this stuff he was doing. All of the stuff done while I was busy trusting him.
Early in our marriage, I walked in on him masturbating to porn without me. I was surprised because it made me feel I was not providing enough intimacy for him and also I did not want him making a habit of porn without me. I expressed my frustration and he agreed not to do it again.
Also- I knew that my husband frequently masturbated and I expressed my desire that we masturbate together when I was not able to have intercourse.
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Originally Posted by bigred0072
I never bothered my husband with his porn or masturbating UNTIL he got a text from a hooker. Then I felt sort of blindsided at that point and went crazy on the investigating.
You most certainly did bother him about his masturbating and porn watching.
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Originally Posted by bigred0072
Some of you idiots do not understand so I will say again:
That's just rude. You come here asking for opinions, you got them, good and bad.
Some of you idiots do not understand so I will say again:
I never bothered my husband with his porn or masturbating UNTIL he got a text from a hooker. Then I felt sort of blindsided at that point and went crazy on the investigating.
I did not henpeck him first which caused him to go do these things. Of course if I was a big b$&@& and always hassled him I would not blame him to get frustrated and seek other relief.
It may be hard to believe but I am SO not a henpecking nosey b&$@&. I trusted him 100% all of the time. I just happened to notice he was the one acting weird so I went CSI and started looking around. That is when I found this stuff he was doing. All of the stuff done while I was busy trusting him.
But then you found out the hooker thing was a mistake, so why are you still riding him?
Oh wait, you aren't. That's why he keeps masturbating to porn in the first place.
I bothered him after he started bothering me about my vibrator. Before that he was free to do it when he wanted. Should not have intruded on my personal space first.
I bothered him after he started bothering me about my vibrator. Before that he was free to do it when he wanted. Should not have intruded on my personal space first.
I stand corrected--your marriage sounds amazing! You should keep doing what you are doing. Sounds like you are on the right track toward a mature and everlasting relationship.
So, how are you going to remedy this martial problem?
Funny thing here is, although I am pretty sure you meant "marital", it really might be headed to a martial problem at this rate!
So, OP... you've said you both are going to counseling. But you already refuse to believe the lie detector results. I'm curious what your criteria for declaring this problem solved is? Has the "believing your husband" ship already set sail and been nuked from orbit, and if so, do you seriously think there's any reason to think your marriage isn't irreversibly on the way down the drain?
P.S. I see there's strong language being thrown about throughout the thread, but you lashing out is only going to get it thrown back in your face, twice as hard.
So, how are you going to remedy this martial problem?
Complain about him on the internet. Let's hope he's as nosey and overbearing about browser histories.
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