Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
I had this assignment in a class (in college) where I didn't know anyone but it was supposed to be in pairs. A girl asked me if I wanted to pair up and I said no problem. The assignment is done and the class is over.
Yesterday she invited me for coffee this Saturday and I told her I would have to check my schedule. I find it very suspicious because no girl has ever invited me to such a thing. Apart from that, she's incredibly beautiful whereas I'm average. I think she might be wanting to make fun of me or laugh in my face if I accept, like "How did it ever cross your mind I would go out with you?"
What do you think I should do?
I think you should go. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and you might think others are a better fit for her, but SHE is the one initiating and she is asking YOU out.
Maybe she likes your character and personality. Maybe she is attracted to you. Why don't you just accept her invite and see where it goes? She was probably waiting all semester for you to ask her and got impatient.
Just be yourself. She obviously is intrigued by you just the way you are, otherwise she wouldn't have invited you to coffee.
This isn't the movies where beautiful girls walk around and set up people for humiliation. She asked you to go for coffee because....she wants to get a coffee with you.
I had this assignment in a class (in college) where I didn't know anyone but it was supposed to be in pairs. A girl asked me if I wanted to pair up and I said no problem. The assignment is done and the class is over.
Yesterday she invited me for coffee this Saturday and I told her I would have to check my schedule. I find it very suspicious because no girl has ever invited me to such a thing. Apart from that, she's incredibly beautiful whereas I'm average. I think she might be wanting to make fun of me or laugh in my face if I accept, like "How did it ever cross your mind I would go out with you?"
What do you think I should do?
I think you should decline. You have incredibly low self-esteem and no faith in humankind. You need to work on yourself before you pursue new friendships.
I think you should decline. You have incredibly low self-esteem and no faith in humankind. You need to work on yourself before you pursue new friendships.
LOL. I agree. I can't believe you didn't say yes immediately. I am leaning on you must be smart. So you might be right, OP. She is gonna use your brains to pass the class. Lots of people do that in college. Bunch of losers err users, you get the drift?
I think you should decline. You have incredibly low self-esteem and no faith in humankind. You need to work on yourself before you pursue new friendships.
Harsh, pursuing new friendships is a good way to build up that self-esteem, would also be good for him to get more experience dealing with girls
Quote:
Originally Posted by Charlotte Panthers
You've already screwed up by saying "let me check my schedule".....
I had this assignment in a class (in college) where I didn't know anyone but it was supposed to be in pairs. A girl asked me if I wanted to pair up and I said no problem. The assignment is done and the class is over.
Yesterday she invited me for coffee this Saturday and I told her I would have to check my schedule. I find it very suspicious because no girl has ever invited me to such a thing. Apart from that, she's incredibly beautiful whereas I'm average. I think she might be wanting to make fun of me or laugh in my face if I accept, like "How did it ever cross your mind I would go out with you?"
What do you think I should do?
Well, if you don't go, you will never know. Why would anyone waste a Saturday to make fun of someone they don't know? Stop over analyzing it, and just accept. Of course, telling her that you have to check your schedule was a lie, and put off, so she may say forget about it if you say yes. So if she says no, learn from it, and instead of posting a question here to see if you should say yes or no, just answer yes.
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
