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I met this girl online and we have been texting back and forth for a couple months. It is going well we seem to have some things in common the problem is that texting is all we have done. I have asked her to meet but she works two jobs and says she is to busy. I like her and would like to see where it goes but I am tired of just texting and not seeing her and I am not sure I can continue to do this. What should I do?
"Too busy" is a cop-out 99% of the time. If she has time to text you, she has time to see you. I'm speaking generally, of course.
In other words, if she truly liked you enough to take things further, she would find the time to meet.
I met this girl online and we have been texting back and forth for a couple months. It is going well we seem to have some things in common the problem is that texting is all we have done. I have asked her to meet but she works two jobs and says she is to busy. I like her and would like to see where it goes but I am tired of just texting and not seeing her and I am not sure I can continue to do this. What should I do?
Stop being available for texting. She'll make time or she won't. Do you really want a gf who hasn't been able to find a couple of hours to meet in MONTHS? What kind of relationship would you have??
My feeling is she doesn't really want to meet, but enjoys the way things are now. As long as you keep texting her, she has absolutely no reason to change anything. You need to find your backbone and be willing to set a boundary, including walking away if need be. You want to be treated with respect, but you need to treat yourself with respect first.
What do you want, a texting relationship or a real life relationship? Stick only to what's getting you closer to your goals in life. If it's not this girl right now, let go and move onto one who wants what you want.
I want to say I do online dating, and I would never in a million years talk to someone this long without meeting, so it's not a case of someone who doesn't understand telling you this.
If she even had the slightest interest in meeting you, she would have a long time ago. She's already in a relationship, she's just using you for an ego boost.
If she even had the slightest interest in meeting you, she would have a long time ago. She's already in a relationship, she's just using you for an ego boost.
Ok...
Why does she need an ego boost from another man if she is in a relationship?
I met this girl online and we have been texting back and forth for a couple months. It is going well we seem to have some things in common the problem is that texting is all we have done. I have asked her to meet but she works two jobs and says she is to busy. I like her and would like to see where it goes but I am tired of just texting and not seeing her and I am not sure I can continue to do this. What should I do?
It could be that she is texting you for the interaction and so she has something to look forward to. She can very well just be biding her time until someone IRL comes along.
It's not unheard of to text for months if you are in a LDR, but I agree with others that being "too busy" is generally an excuse. If a person is crazy about another person, they will find moments in the day to send a simple message letting you know they are thinking of you.
I met this girl online and we have been texting back and forth for a couple months. It is going well we seem to have some things in common the problem is that texting is all we have done. I have asked her to meet but she works two jobs and says she is to busy. I like her and would like to see where it goes but I am tired of just texting and not seeing her and I am not sure I can continue to do this. What should I do?
Stop texting and Call her.
Ugh sometimes modern technology gives me the chills. When (or if) you two finally meet in person it's gonna be awkward.
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