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A classic case of a woman playing home wrecker..confront her, she is the problem. Your husband is just an innocent party in this mess and just trying to be polite.
I guess I missed where she said that her friend initiated the text messages and was chasing her husband.
After seeing one suspicious text from my best friend to my husband I researched a little more. Even though he deleted all the texts. I am able to get a bill from the phone company documenting every text back and fourth between them. In one month they sent over 1000 texts to each other. Please tell me I'm not crazy for accusing them of something going on behind my back. They are both telling me nothing inappropriate was ever sent. Need advice.
My question is.....
Why are you even asking total strangers this?
It's obvious there's something going on between the 2 of them &
yet you post a question that you probably already know the answer to.
At this point I say confront both of 'em--
If they aren't having an affair , sounds like its just a matter of time. It appears emotional /text affair has started .
You have every reason to be calling him out on this. I would throw down and say "I don't know whats going on but this better stop now " Also no locked phones , I would want access to the phone and email
NOTE - there is a chance they are planning some surprise for you and you could be blowing it ??
After seeing one suspicious text from my best friend to my husband I researched a little more. Even though he deleted all the texts. I am able to get a bill from the phone company documenting every text back and fourth between them. In one month they sent over 1000 texts to each other. Please tell me I'm not crazy for accusing them of something going on behind my back. They are both telling me nothing inappropriate was ever sent. Need advice.
What you do is leave work early and pop in the house time to time when you are not expected.
Take lunch to his work.
When he least expects you show up.
Tell your best friend and then your husband you are leaving for the weekend to go shopping or visit friends or family. Before you leave, set up your new spy camera clock in your bedroom.
For one, as another posted stated, the texting is the beginning of an emotional affair. You friend should not be texting him at all without you knowing what it's for. It's a matter of respect. I would keep my eyes open and let the friend know you're not comfortable with her texting your man so much. Good luck!
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I guess I missed where she said that her friend initiated the text messages and was chasing her husband. 
