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Rejection is a part of life. If a woman rejects me and I see her again, I won't refuse to talk to her. To do so makes you look petty and immature.
That's my choice and I'm sticking with it. I'll stop talking to women who don't like me and find ones that do. What others think of my choice doesn't matter.
How do I deal with it? I don't talk to them again. Once a woman rejects me, we have nothing else to discuss again.
I don't blame you, if she turned you down then that means no. I wouldn't necessarily refuse to talk to them if we ran into each other but I would not pursue any further, it would be a simple conversation and nothing more.
That's my choice and I'm sticking with it. I'll stop talking to women who don't like me and find ones that do. What others think of my choice doesn't matter.
I am not going to try to convince you to do something else, like you said, it's your choice. But I thought I should point out that just because someone is not sexually interested in you doesn't mean that person doesn't like you.
I am not going to try to convince you to do something else, like you said, it's your choice. But I thought I should point out that just because someone is not sexually interested in you doesn't mean that person doesn't like you.
Sounds like you are. Once a woman rejects to me, that's fine. But I don't have to be her friend. In fact, it is off the table completely. I am not obligated to even speak to her again. Like you said, it's my choice and it isn't changing.
Sounds like you are. Once a woman rejects to me, that's fine. But I don't have to be her friend. In fact, it is off the table completely. I am not obligated to even speak to her again. Like you said, it's my choice and it isn't changing.
Sounds like you are. Once a woman rejects to me, that's fine. But I don't have to be her friend. In fact, it is off the table completely. I am not obligated to even speak to her again. Like you said, it's my choice and it isn't changing.
No, of course you're not obligated or anything like that. I just wanted to point out (for your own emotional well being) that lack of sexual interest isn't the same as disliking a person. Sure you don't have to be friends with women who don't want to date you, but it's kind of damaging to one's own psyche to think that it's because they "don't like you" as a person.
Mabye your just rubbish at chatting up women, they may not like your looks, cloths, hair, or lack of it ect ect. MAKE THEM LAUGH , that all you have to do laugh them into bed . I am getting on now, but women still like me . I make the feel good, complement them tell them they look good . Jesus its no rocket science and you don't have to be good looking my wife calls me a rugged handsome guy That I think means I am average looking but I am fun to be with . You have to perform in the bedroom department that helps a lot.
No, of course you're not obligated or anything like that. I just wanted to point out (for your own emotional well being) that lack of sexual interest isn't the same as disliking a person. Sure you don't have to be friends with women who don't want to date you, but it's kind of damaging to one's own psyche to think that it's because they "don't like you" as a person.
I have enough female friends. I don't want anymore. I'm not trying to come off as an ass here, but I get mad when I'm shamed for my choices.
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I am not going to try to convince you to do something else, like you said, it's your choice. But I thought I should point out that just because someone is not sexually interested in you doesn't mean that person doesn't like you.
From his point of view, it is only going to torture him to be around someone who he feels strongly about that had made clear that person don't feel the same way. In that situation he is far better off cutting his losses so he does not waste time with someone who cannot return those feelings.
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That I think means I am average looking but I am fun to be with . You have to perform in the bedroom department that helps a lot.
