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Old 08-04-2014, 10:15 AM
 
Location: East Coast of the United States
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I wanted to ask this just out of curiosity to hear about what your observations have been on this.
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Old 08-04-2014, 10:29 AM
 
Location: Canada
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Not unless they're prostitutes.
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Old 08-04-2014, 10:30 AM
 
Location: SacTown
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According to some women on here, when a man spends money on her early on it means he really cares....making her feel "special", so the more he spends the more "special" she'll feel LoL.
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Old 08-04-2014, 10:32 AM
 
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no. women are going to choose when to be intimate when they are ready and not before. you can spend a million dollars in your first few dates, and it still may be six months before she decides she is ready.
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Old 08-04-2014, 10:33 AM
 
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According to some women on here, when a man spends money on her early on it means he really cares....making her feel "special", so the more he spends the more "special" she'll feel LoL.
no that is NOT what they are saying at all, and you know it.
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Old 08-04-2014, 10:33 AM
 
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I wanted to ask this just out of curiosity to hear about what your observations have been on this.

I've never found any correlation whatsoever, though it isn't something I've given much thought to in general. In my, albeit limited experience, it is all about chemistry. If we're into each other and feel comfortable with each other, we have sex right away, if we're not, we do not and may never. There have been relatively few variances on this due to logistical issues, but certainly money wasn't an issue outside of possibly having babysitter issues.
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Old 08-04-2014, 10:38 AM
 
Location: SacTown
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no that is NOT what they are saying at all, and you know it.
That's been my observation on here and IRL.
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Old 08-04-2014, 10:38 AM
 
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No. Women are as horny as men are. The only difference is that we also have to be wary of men who want to harm us, physically or reputationally.

If she is attracted to you and feels safe, she will bang you after your free date walking in the park, no problem! If she is not attracted to you or you seem dangerous, money won't help.

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That's been my observation on here and IRL.
You are lying to yourself in order to avid facing the real reason you do not get laid.
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Old 08-04-2014, 10:39 AM
 
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Nope.
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Old 08-04-2014, 10:46 AM
 
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No, she is not.
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