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Old 08-11-2014, 12:10 PM
 
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I feel like I am being bullied and made fun of! I didn't ask for this. I just wanted honest opinions. There are no active love/relationship forums anywhere. City-Data seems to be the only place with active forums, where you will get responses, but everytime I post something. I get bashed, or bullied or made fun of. If you don't like what I post then you can move past it. You don't have to look at it or comment, just move past it. I changed my username cause I wanted to be more anonymous. But anyways, I feel once again I wasted my time. I feel like everyone just makes fun of me and bullies me. If you have any suggestions on where I can post or relationship forums, then I won't bother anyone on here, or be the object of ridicule. Thank you.
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Old 08-11-2014, 12:11 PM
 
Location: PANAMA
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The guy sells "weed", the woman passes out. He's on your friend zone? Well if you are interested call him!!! I hate when women expect everything from a man and they never return a call, or a chat or anything.
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Old 08-11-2014, 12:15 PM
 
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I feel like I am being bullied and made fun of! I didn't ask for this. I just wanted honest opinions. There are no active love/relationship forums anywhere. City-Data seems to be the only place with active forums, where you will get responses, but everytime I post something. I get bashed, or bullied or made fun of. If you don't like what I post then you can move past it. You don't have to look at it or comment, just move past it. I changed my username cause I wanted to be more anonymous. But anyways, I feel once again I wasted my time. I feel like everyone just makes fun of me and bullies me. If you have any suggestions on where I can post or relationship forums, then I won't bother anyone on here, or be the object of ridicule. Thank you.

You have been given numerous suggestions and advice and you ignore it all and continue to get into the same situations with different guys and post the same questions.

If you don't want to be "bullied and ridiculed" as you say you are then stay away from the boys, the alcohol and focus only on your classes.
You put yourself into these situations time and time again and still wonder why this crap happens to you.

PS ~~ I will happily put you on my ignore list since it is an option provided by the forum.

I do hope you get your life straightened out and you get everything you deserve in your lifetime.
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Old 08-11-2014, 12:37 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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I changed my username cause I wanted to be more anonymous.
You cannot have anonymity when you post the same problems over and over again.
Even if you change your name again, people will know WHO you are by WHAT you post!
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Old 08-11-2014, 01:45 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Nikki, you need to face the truth.

You are putting yourself and others in danger by drinking too much, and you hang out around a bunch of scumbag guys who won't treat you well.

Don't you want to change that???
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Old 08-13-2014, 10:03 AM
 
Location: Concord, California
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OP, this world of yours sounds really strange to me. Where you drink to the point of passing out. Party here, party there. Buy drugs, surround yourself with dealers and users...it isn't an environment where healthy can grow.
I don't think you're going to find a worthwhile relationship in that environment, in other words. If you want something worthwhile you'll have to work to get it. It sounds like this Steve guy is interested in getting laid, and that is all its about. If you want to be part of the party culture, that's what you'll be settling for. And who you will be to the guys who take part in it with you.
Well, I guess that wasn't your original question, but, my answer and advice is the same as some of the other posters' here who can see that your brain is so addled you can't think past the fact that you are just a fun time party girl, a booty call. Sure, you're going to have lots of guys who are just interested in sex for sex. If that's what you want then congratulations, that's what you have, and that's who you are right now.
You can jump from one bed to the next and no one will even blink, remember your name in a year, or care what happens to you.
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Old 08-13-2014, 10:31 AM
 
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I feel like I am being bullied and made fun of! I didn't ask for this. I just wanted honest opinions. There are no active love/relationship forums anywhere. City-Data seems to be the only place with active forums, where you will get responses, but everytime I post something. I get bashed, or bullied or made fun of. If you don't like what I post then you can move past it. You don't have to look at it or comment, just move past it. I changed my username cause I wanted to be more anonymous. But anyways, I feel once again I wasted my time. I feel like everyone just makes fun of me and bullies me. If you have any suggestions on where I can post or relationship forums, then I won't bother anyone on here, or be the object of ridicule. Thank you.
Don't you have any female immature friends that you can talk to about this? Or do they not hang out with drunks, drug dealers and stoners?
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Old 08-13-2014, 10:35 AM
 
Location: Sango, TN
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Sounds like average 20 something dating/friend stuff.

If you like him, date him. If you don't, its obvious he has more feelings for you, and he manages the friendship in a way as to hope that one day you will like him also.

This means that y'all can't be friends. I tried to be "just friends" with the girl I'm dating now. Didn't work, for either of us. Insane jealousy when we'd date someone else, and if we ever spent more then 5 minutes alone we were in bed professing our undying love for one another again.

Finally we said screw all the BS, lets just live together. Haven't stopped since.

Hope you find your path. Just be true to you, if you're true to yourself you'll find someone who loves you for being true to yourself. There you'll find happiness.
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Old 08-13-2014, 11:19 AM
 
Location: NC
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he is probably just not interested in a "babe" who drinks to the point of passing out, or consume alcohol to the point of unconsciousness.
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Disagree, I think that is the ONLY thing he was interested in....
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Old 08-13-2014, 01:01 PM
 
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What do you get from all of this?
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