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Old 08-13-2014, 04:10 PM
 
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no, with friends its more fun, but if not friends there is website Find your people - Meetup to connect people in clubs in same sititation
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Old 08-13-2014, 05:32 PM
 
Location: Inside
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I go all the time by myself. I ask other people to go, but I usually get "You're leaving at 10? That's when I go to bed." Provided I like the music I always enjoy myself. I get to talk to lots of different people. I see people doing weird and goofy stuff. It's almost always worth going rather than another night at home.

I've had some guys be creepy to me and it's really annoying ("I am new in town, can I come live with you?" wtf?), but it's also rare enough that I don't worry about it. I am male though and I've seen some guys be really creepy to women for hours on end. I guess it would depend on your tolerance for that kind of thing.
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Old 08-13-2014, 05:34 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I don't like clubs. So, nope.
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Old 08-13-2014, 05:50 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Many clubs are geared towards the 20 something crowd.Bars/restaurants are for the older crowd.I wouldn advise going alone to either if you are female, you just never know.

Alone woman at the bar says to me:

Alcoholic
Loner
Druggie
Desperate
Skank
Lost
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Old 08-13-2014, 06:33 PM
 
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I have when I travel for work.

My social circle is pretty big, so back home probably not.
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Old 08-13-2014, 11:00 PM
 
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i went to plenty of strip clubs alone but you're not talking about those types of clubs.

I actually went to vegas for the first time in my twenty nine years of living. (and i live in california) I went for my somewhat-friend's birthday party, but really I went to Vegas to explore it. And it was fun. I spent half a day with her and my friends, and the rest of my two days alone. I did number of things alone and I made friends. I don't want to sound conceited, but more times than not when I go to places alone, i make a few friends or at least meet people to talk for a few hours or so.
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Old 08-13-2014, 11:32 PM
 
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I didn't go alone back when I was young and wouldn't now. A small neighborhood bar , yea.
Clubs are best when you go with a group of friends. There always seemed to be something weird about a person if they were alone in a club
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Old 08-14-2014, 11:16 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Raena77 View Post
Many clubs are geared towards the 20 something crowd.Bars/restaurants are for the older crowd.I wouldn advise going alone to either if you are female, you just never know.

Alone woman at the bar says to me:

Alcoholic
Loner
Druggie
Desperate
Skank
Lost


Wow, really? Not "Wants to have a drink somewhere other than her hotel room" or "meeting friends in a bit and killing some time?" or "Coming by to see a friend during his/her shift at the bar" any other reason that isn't automatically a negative?

Sometimes I wonder what kind of bars people on this forum are familiar with....
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Old 08-14-2014, 11:21 AM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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No. I'm not really into the club scene.
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Old 08-14-2014, 12:27 PM
 
Location: NY metro area
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I love dance clubs, but no way in heck I would go alone unless I was looking to meet guys. And even during my single days, there's no way I would go to a club alone. Ugh...I despised meeting my girlfriends at a club because the guys would accost me as I walked through the door just because I was alone.
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