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Old 08-17-2014, 02:47 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I'm a one woman kind of guy, when I was single I rarely did much juggling.
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Old 08-17-2014, 05:00 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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I don't know about how ladies think about this issue. As a man, I really like to hang out/date with multiple women as a time. It does give you options to hedge. However sometimes I do feel a little guilty and fear that it may backfire if either of the girls finds out, Plus it can be very overwhelming.
If you go into it telling them you aren't looking for a commitment, then you leave it to them to decide if they're willing to accept it. If they do, there is no hiding or sneaking around. But if you're worried about one of them finding out, that says you're somehow leading each to believe she's the only one. Crappy. There's no need for that.

If it's overwhelming, cut back. Seems pretty simple to me.
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Old 08-18-2014, 04:02 AM
 
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I don't know about how ladies think about this issue. As a man, I really like to hang out/date with multiple women as a time. It does give you options to hedge. However sometimes I do feel a little guilty and fear that it may backfire if either of the girls finds out, Plus it can be very overwhelming.
If you're just dating, neither one of you owe each other sh*t. If you're exclusive that's a different story.
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