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Hm. That is an interesting phenomena. I am not a mate poacher. It seems all the attractive people are taken. And I am no longer interested in my professor. A relationship with him would be futile and I finished calculus with him and passed. I don't know why it hits me like a rock to like someone. It is unexpected.
She just told me she is bisexual today and she blushed! OMG so happy!
Yes indeed. Congratulations. Ain't that just a special kind of warm n fuzzy. For everyone's sake in this, I certainly hope the male involved is a ....progressive thinker, and that he's not deeply invested, emotionally. Kudos and Hop Rahs to him if he can just walk away and not look back. Its not exactly easy for anyone to get thrown over for a sexual fantasy.
But hey, thus is the way of things in 2014 America. Personal gratification above all, more the merrier. No matter how fleeting the feeling. Trampling someone else in the process just adds a dash of red pepper to the dish.
Yes, go forth and enjoy the taste of victory. Again the old adage comes to mind....Over time, one often comes to realize that having, is not always so pleasant a thing, as wanting.
Hm. That is an interesting phenomena. I am not a mate poacher. It seems all the attractive people are taken. And I am no longer interested in my professor. A relationship with him would be futile and I finished calculus with him and passed. I don't know why it hits me like a rock to like someone. It is unexpected.
Your own words...
She's got a boyfriend! What can and should I do to test the waters without freaking her out?
So did you want to steal her away from her boyfriend?
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So recently I met this really cute girl at universoty. We became instant best friends quickly. She would always compliment me and joke al the time about us getting married and even us dating. But I'm not sure, I don't want to scare her off if I flirt or do anything subtle. I really don't want to lose her friendship, but this text has me kinda going.
Her: Hey girl. Yo uh looked very pretty today
I loved your korean style. You are a cute girl xo
Me: Me too. You're so pretty today. I like you with your hair done and your eye makeup is so pretty too! I'll surprise you tomorrow with a new outfit :-*
Her: Hey did you feel bad today. You are lovely and very sweet. And smart girl. Don't feel bad about things I do. I wish I couldI am always gonna be there.
Me: Hm I won't. Not from such a pretty girl like you And as far as I know, you're a good girl.
Her: I will do your make up .. we should bake one day
But here's the thing. She's got a boyfriend! What can and should I do to test the waters without freaking her out?
I dont see nothing but normal 'straight' girl to 'straight' girl chatter. That's what girls do, bolster each others self esteem. Friends are concerned to a point about how you feel, and stuff. Girls get together and make cookies and do their nails and giggle about guys.
They even hug and kiss - its girly to peck friends on the cheek and hug them.
Im not sure if what you are getting is a signal from her, or just what you lust for that isnt really there. Bottom line: If you want to preserve the friendship - dont even go there with your relationship. Why risk it? Good friends are not easy to replace.
She just told me she had a great time last night after I came out to her and we should "bake" at my place with a wink! Who cares about pilots when female ATC is better?
She just told me she had a great time last night after I came out to her and we should "bake" at my place with a wink! Who cares about pilots when female ATC is better?
In what world is being a stressed out, over stretched, depressed air traffic controller, better than being up in the clouds as a pilot???
What-is-"bake"???????
Are you talking about smoking joints?? Does someone have a yeast infection??
I don't either and I still can't find what in hades "ATC" or whatever that was in the post above means.
I dislike it very much when people cannot use full words, there are not that many more keystrokes so it doesn't take much more time.
Oh well, on to the next I don't understand all the cryptic letter code thread.
ATC should equal "Air Traffic Controller".......but who knows. Until I know what "bake" means, I'm not confirming anything.
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I am always gonna be there. 
