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Old 08-25-2014, 12:39 PM
 
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Hello,

I'm a 35 year old woman recently separated and planning to divorce. Last week my employer had some guys come to install the new security system. One of the guys is 22 years old. The first few days he kept looking at me and smiling and then started finding different reasons to come talk to me. There is something about him that I'm really attracted to. It doesn't hurt that he is also completely adorable. He makes me very nervous and feel flustered. No one has had that effect on me in a long time. Today he was making small talk and I told him I was surprised that someone so young was doing the job he is doing. I think I may have insulted him on accident by saying that.

Anyway what I'm getting at is I'm pretty sure he's flirting and I would be interested in taking that to another level. I think he may be too shy to ask for my number and I'm very nervous to pursue it. He is only at the company until tomorrow and the job is done. I'm not looking for anything serious. Just fun! Should I have him my number or wait to see if he asks??

Thanks

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Old 08-25-2014, 12:43 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I'm sure he'd like to have some temporary fun with a vulnerable married women going through divorce.

Shoot him your number.
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Old 08-25-2014, 12:45 PM
 
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I'm sure he'd like to have some temporary fun with a vulnerable married women going through divorce.

Shoot him your number.
Lol I'm not vulnerable.. I'm very happy about it
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Old 08-25-2014, 12:46 PM
 
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It's alright. Don't worry. I very attracted to very younger girls.
I knew I would get silly responses on this thread ha
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Old 08-25-2014, 12:47 PM
 
Location: In the desert, by the mirage.
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I'm sure he'd like to have some temporary fun with a vulnerable married women going through divorce.

Shoot him your number.
I second this. Don't wait... he may never ask.
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Old 08-25-2014, 12:49 PM
 
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A fling can be nice when you are breaking up. But, has your divorce been finalised? If not, even if you are sure you are never getting back together with hubby, there may be some very unpleasant legal repercussions. I think you should check into that.
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Old 08-25-2014, 12:50 PM
 
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I second this. Don't wait... he may never ask.
So do I put it on a post it note? Lol
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Old 08-25-2014, 12:53 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Hello,

I'm a 35 year old woman recently separated and planning to divorce. Last week my employer had some guys come to install the new security system. One of the guys is 22 years old. The first few days he kept looking at me and smiling and then started finding different reasons to come talk to me. There is something about him that I'm really attracted to. It doesn't hurt that he is also completely adorable. He makes me very nervous and feel flustered. No one has had that effect on me in a long time. Today he was making small talk and I told him I was surprised that someone so young was doing the job he is doing. I think I may have insulted him on accident by saying that.

Anyway what I'm getting at is I'm pretty sure he's flirting and I would be interested in taking that to another level. I think he may be too shy to ask for my number and I'm very nervous to pursue it. He is only at the company until tomorrow and the job is done. I'm not looking for anything serious. Just fun! Should I have him my number or wait to see if he asks??

Thanks
Yes I think you should. You only live once.

I can't say that I have ever been attracted to much young guy. I am not attracted to teenagers. I found guys in their mid - late 30s, to early 40s to be the sexiest though.
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Old 08-25-2014, 12:54 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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I don't know - that age difference makes me think he wants a sugar mama, or you want to baby someone....
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Old 08-25-2014, 12:59 PM
 
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Yes I think you should. You only live once.

I can't say that I have ever been attracted to much young guy. I am not attracted to teenagers. I found guys in their mid - late 30s, to early 40s to be the sexiest though.
So should I give him a post it note with my number? Lol..
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