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Alright. The OP is 32 though. I mean I'm not really sure how that's relevant since being a virgin starts to get weird after you graduate high school but I guess the 30's milestone is probably messing him up psychologically. I have no expertise in this area so take whatever I say with a grain of salt.
Anyway I don't mean to get too personal but did you tell the girl that you were a virgin? Or did you just stay quiet and let it happen naturally? I ask because I've always sort of wondered if I ever get the chance to have sex if I should tell the woman beforehand or not.
I told her I was a virgin, my ex didn't mind. Who cares if she thinks it's weird lol. That's not a woman you should be with anyways if she judges you off of something trivial like that.
I told her I was a virgin, my ex didn't mind. Who cares if she thinks it's weird lol. That's not a woman you should be with anyways if she judges you off of something trivial like that.
I understand where you're coming from but honestly I think many guys would like to just get it over with. And besides there are a lot of women out there who would judge you for it. I'm just saying that if a guy thought a woman would judge him for being a virgin he would probably just stay quiet so that he can lose his virginity.
Nevertheless it's nice to hear that your ex didn't mind. It seems like there are many good girls out there.
Mental scarring and pain from missing out on dating etc. in your teens and early 20's? Dude, you belong to a large club. But most people aren't scarred by it or depressed over it. Dramatic, much? You're really doing a number on yourself. Just get on with your life. Go. Date. Why would you deny yourself what you want most out of life? You only live once, Mog. Make the most of the life you have.
Sorry, its just whenever people say better late than never, it sounds like of if you start late than it means you will be settling for second best, as in sex, dating and relationships, companionship and intimacy won't feel as good physically and mentally when you are older, that's what I heard
Sorry, its just whenever people say better late than never, it sounds like of if you start late than it means you will be settling for second best, as in sex, dating and relationships, companionship and intimacy won't feel as good physically and mentally when you are older, that's what I heard
Yeah you heard it from yourself. I have heard no one ever say such a thing.
Sorry, its just whenever people say better late than never, it sounds like of if you start late than it means you will be settling for second best, as in sex, dating and relationships, companionship and intimacy won't feel as good physically and mentally when you are older, that's what I heard
I understand where you're coming from but honestly I think many guys would like to just get it over with. And besides there are a lot of women out there who would judge you for it. I'm just saying that if a guy thought a woman would judge him for being a virgin he would probably just stay quiet so that he can lose his virginity.
Nevertheless it's nice to hear that your ex didn't mind. It seems like there are many good girls out there.
And I would not care if she did... My mentality was if she didn't like it, then she wasn't woman for me.
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