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Have you ever found one of these creatures?
I mean other than on FetLife or CollarMe?
Of course, plenty of them. In fact, most men I meet tend to lean towards the submissiveness I look for and am attracted to the most.
Perhaps it's an energetic attraction between the both of us. They smell me and I smell them... sometimes 90 miles away or living all the way in the cringe worthy Triad.
You will NOT BELIEVE how many girls I resist approaching due to non compliance of these 3 very basic conditions. But that's expected since this is a different country with cultural differences varying like night and day.
It's pretty easy to believe, though. You're living and ostensibly attempting to date in a country that's neither predominantly Hindu nor Indian, and where vegetarianism, though not uncommon, isn't the practice of the majority, either.
I was on another forum and this woman was discussing why she doesn't date certain guys. I can't remember what they were but she had a bad experience with something she now avoids men like that. Anyone the reason I have certain requirements is either bad experience or personal taste. For example I've dated men with kids and found they had so much baggage I couldn't handle it. Same thing with a few other things. An ex was obese and nasty and I know because of my active lifestyle I need someone active.
I held out and found a man with the requirements.
Of course you should have requirements, nothing wrong with that, it's a very good thing, it's good to know what you want in a person. It's good to know that you have held up to that. Good going,keep it up.
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Originally Posted by kat949
Quite honestly, I have a friend who told me to "get rid of your expectations" and I was like "Hell no!!"
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Originally Posted by Idon'tdateyou
My aunt was like that. She would tell me my standards were too high and tried to match me up with some winners. That's because she's no winner, she had kids by two men and married to a third. I'd rather be happy than settle. b
Excellent, that's the attitude, that's how it should be, but unfortunately for most people it's not like that.
In my view, it doesn't do any good to let of of your standards and compromise, it only leaves you unhappy in the long run. Yes I am also like that, I have really standards for the kind of woman I want and I also know it may never happen, or will never happen rather. I am fine with that. I don't ever regret having high standards, I never will. I would never listen to anyone who says that "I should compromise or let of of the standards that I have". I would never do that.No matter who says that to me, I won't ever listen to that.
I would happily remain alone/single for my entire lifetime but I won't ever let go or compromise on my standards.
Of course you should have requirements, nothing wrong with that, it's a very good thing,
it's good to know what you want in a person. It's good to know that you have held up to that.
Good going, keep it up.
The next question is what they'll do once they have found this person.
Are they ready to really advance that relationship? Do they even WANT to?
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I would happily remain alone/single for my entire lifetime
but I won't ever let go or compromise on my standards.
And some (here especially) seem to see this as the expected end point regardless.
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