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And here is some food for thought. If the roles were reversed, would everyone here be telling her to laugh it off? I doubt it. He would be shamed as being a two timing creep.
Also are people naïve enough to think that no one in any bridal party has ever been with the bride or groom? Hell my best man dated my now wife. He actually set us up. According to some of you people this clearly means they are still doing it, and everyone is an a hole.
I set my ex up with a coworker because they seemed to have a lot in common. They dated for four years and bought a condo together. If they married I'm sure my husband and I would have been invited.
I'm assuming that she invited him (If you did, you need to have your head examined). That she invited a former lover to the wedding is the ultimate red flag. She was not over him, and there is a high probability that she was unfaithful to you after you wed.
Wow. You seem very insecure, mistrustful and suspicious. Is this a Hungarian macho trait?
Nothing wrong with inviting an old lover to your wedding. People can still be friends. I'm still friends with many of my exes. Would I invite them to my wedding? Absolutely.
And here is some food for thought. If the roles were reversed, would everyone here be telling her to laugh it off? I doubt it. He would be shamed as being a two timing creep.
Not me--my answer would not change. And I think several of the guys here would either be silent or support the man because they weren't explicitly exclusive and/or that it's natural for a guy to pursue multiple women.
Wow. You seem very insecure, mistrustful and suspicious. Is this a Hungarian macho trait?
Nothing wrong with inviting an old lover to your wedding. People can still be friends. I'm still friends with many of my exes. Would I invite them to my wedding? Absolutely.
Nah, he just sounds like your average young guy who has never been married.
Wow. You seem very insecure, mistrustful and suspicious. Is this a Hungarian macho trait?
Nothing wrong with inviting an old lover to your wedding. People can still be friends. I'm still friends with many of my exes. Would I invite them to my wedding? Absolutely.
Friends with all my ex's and my husband has no problem being in a social setting with any of them
Also are people naïve enough to think that no one in any bridal party has ever been with the bride or groom? Hell my best man dated my now wife. He actually set us up. According to some of you people this clearly means they are still doing it, and everyone is an a hole.
Me and my friends don't each others ex's, major man code violation. I don't know what kind of lowlifes some of you people associate with. And any women that would invite one of their ex's or somebody they used to sleep to her wedding does NOT respect her man. I would never go to a wedding of one of my ex's or invite one to my wedding.
You couldn't be more wrong (though I wouldn't mind being an average young guy again). And as someone who has been around the block a few times I've seen all this crap before and am familiar with the patterns in my peers' failed marriages. And one pattern that I have seen over and over is that women who enjoy casual sex never stop liking it.
Me and my friends don't each others ex's, major man code violation. I don't know what kind of lowlifes some of you people associate with. And any women that would invite one of their ex's or somebody they used to sleep to her wedding does NOT respect her man. I would never go to a wedding of one of my ex's or invite one to my wedding.
Lol! Some of us are more mature than others, I guess.
My friendship with my exes means much more than just the sex part. That's over.
I've stayed friends with some of them for decades.
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