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So basically you want a man who would be willing to do exactly what you are not willing to do yourself ah? He can't have kids but you already do have two. You are not a kid person but he has to be. It is hard to accept somebody that is asking you to do something he or she is not willing to do themselves. Good luck.
Again, I guess this is regional. I know a lot of desirable men and women who don't use biology as an excuse to marry too young or ignore their own dreams. Plenty of these men are fine with dating women their own age regardless of how old they are. They aren't just looking for babymakers though; they want actual love. Guess that's the difference.
The OP is also looking for actual love...As long as the man meets her list of requirements.
Interesting......I'm not trying to judge the OPs choices, we've all got our own issues and I'm sure mine aren't always real impressive either. I do know who I am though and I'm comfortable with it. I'm not sure the OP really understands who she is, let alone getting comfortable with herself. No ill manners intended, just trying to give an honest answer as to what the issue is. It's not always bad to look at yourself through the eyes of others. It may take a bit of a thick skin, but there's no better way to see who you really are and what you may want to work on.
now that is an honest, well thought out and much better post!!!
thank you, integrity all over this one!
you get reps!
sure, everyone who doesn't agree with you is a knuckle dragger. I'm starting to see some of the source of your dating woes.
oh wow
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