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Old 09-13-2014, 01:41 PM
 
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Can you just answer my questions please? I am seriously trying to help you.
No I am a straight heterosexual male, never had a sex change but I just hate the cards I was dealt with for being a guy

 
Old 09-13-2014, 01:43 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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No I am a straight heterosexual male, never had a sex change but I just hate the cards I was dealt with for being a guy
Okay, it's good that you are certain of your gender.

Now, have you found a therapist to work with yet?

Have you tried asking yourself "what am I so afraid of?"
 
Old 09-13-2014, 01:51 PM
 
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That's what angers me and fills me with rage, pisses me off so god damn much because me being a guy I have to take god damn responsibility for everything, do something about it for everything, make things or make something happen for everything god damn it meanwhile for women it just gets handed to them on a silver platter
You should go on antidepressants. That sh*t can change your life.
 
Old 09-13-2014, 01:51 PM
 
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Okay, it's good that you are certain of your gender.

Now, have you found a therapist to work with yet?

Have you tried asking yourself "what am I so afraid of?"
Why should I seek therapy? As for being afraid, its just I hate being rejected with a huge passion
 
Old 09-13-2014, 01:58 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Why should I seek therapy? As for being afraid, its just I hate being rejected with a huge passion
Isn't it obvious?

Because you are bitter and hateful for no reason.

You need to be asking yourself:

Why am I so envious of women having it easy?

Why do I think women have it easy?

Why do I want a girlfriend so bad?

Why am I not happy with myself?

Why am I jealous of other men?

Why do I hate being rejected?

Why does such a trivial thing bother me?

Figure out those answers and then FIX them. A woman isn't gonna fix it for you. You are taking it too far and you know it.
 
Old 09-13-2014, 01:59 PM
 
Location: Montana
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That you use the term "likely" demonstrates that you don't have enough experience to really make that judgment. Speaking from a woman's standpoint, sex is much better when you get older, because the guy actually knows what he is doing. Sex as a teen, while fun, is often awkward and inhibited, regardless of how hot the people involved are.
For some men they still don't know what they are doing because they haven't had much sex in their lives. In order for a man to have sex he needs to go out looking for it and face rejection. Men that are introverted with self image problems this becomes an insurmountable mountain to climb. If a woman is cute and shy she will get men that will approach her. The only women that can relate to what shy low confidence men face are overweight ugly women. For women to experience sex they just need to look good and pick a suitable candidate out of the suitors.

For example, the show 40 year old Virgin was about a man :P I'm sure that show hit home with a lot of men.
 
Old 09-13-2014, 02:02 PM
 
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Why should I seek therapy? As for being afraid, its just I hate being rejected with a huge passion
Honey, the reasons are PAINFULLY obvious to anyone who reads the stuff you write.

I can promise you - FEAR is at the root of your anger and hatred.

Please, examine that - THINK ABOUT IT.

It is up to YOU to save yourself here.
 
Old 09-13-2014, 02:15 PM
 
Location: "Silicon Valley" (part of San Francisco Bay Area, California, USA)
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Montanaguy, I agree 100%. I'm going to be a 40 year old virgin in four years, lol. Except not really lol because if I think about the complete absence from my life of reciprocation of romantic love, it is depressing. Like I said I'm 36 and have never kissed anyone.
 
Old 09-13-2014, 02:16 PM
 
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Montanaguy, I agree 100%. I'm going to be a 40 year old virgin in four years, lol. Except not really lol because if I think about the complete absence from my life of reciprocation of romantic love, it is depressing. Like I said I'm 36 abd have never kissed anyone.
Damn that sucks.
 
Old 09-13-2014, 02:21 PM
 
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Montanaguy, I agree 100%. I'm going to be a 40 year old virgin in four years, lol. Except not really lol because if I think about the complete absence from my life of reciprocation of romantic love, it is depressing. Like I said I'm 36 and have never kissed anyone.
So what are you actively doing to change this situation neutrino?
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