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If you like him, give him some sort of signals. Pass him a note "do you like me? yes or no"
Give him some sort of opening, and see if he asks you out.
I have NO idea if he is a "playa" () or not from what you have shared. For all we know he has a harem of women he is dating.
YOU need to get to know him well enough to determine if he is a good guy or not.
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The getting to know him part is hard. I try and then I give up. I'm a mess!
Meh. If he's that hard to get to know, you don't even know if he is worth the effort.
Why do you keep trying to get to know him better? You guys seem like you hang out a lot?
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Thanks ConeyGirl52,
Well honestly, she is like his protector. I do believe that while he is very confident with most girls, he still has a lot of insecurity and I think she makes him feel grounded. They seem to have a bro/sis dynamic.
Funny, because after he and I started to warm up to one another, he was like the little baby who would let his momma's hand go when he realized he could walk on his own. A few days ago, I noticed she had a confused look on her face when she saw him walk over and talk to me.
We are mutual acquaintances. Nothing more, nothing less.
Okay, sounds like she really likes him too. I was looking to see if the reason you two know each other is because of her. If she is all you have in common then she is what he can talk about with you.
Stop making faces when he's around. Men dont generally care about a woman's bad time, and will internalize any reaction you have. I guess they just want their women happy. If you are not really into him, leave it alone - unless you dont care if the other girl starts to hate your backside.
My husband and I are like brother and sister too. He may like you, but is he worth the trouble you will have with her over him? Drama may seem exciting, but in the end it usually sucks.
Okay, sounds like she really likes him too. I was looking to see if the reason you two know each other is because of her. If she is all you have in common then she is what he can talk about with you.
Stop making faces when he's around. Men dont generally care about a woman's bad time, and will internalize any reaction you have. I guess they just want their women happy. If you are not really into him, leave it alone - unless you dont care if the other girl starts to hate your backside.
My husband and I are like brother and sister too. He may like you, but is he worth the trouble you will have with her over him? Drama may seem exciting, but in the end it usually sucks.
Best wishes!
lol, I'll try to stop making faces.
Hmmm...don't think he's worth it. She may pose a problem down the line and I can tell that she ALREADY hates my backside. Always rolling her eyes at me and just plain making me feel like she wants to beat me up.
Ah, I think I'm done.
Thanks for your help.
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) or not from what you have shared. For all we know he has a harem of women he is dating. 
