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Old 09-21-2014, 08:40 AM
 
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My point exactly.
True. I guess his cheating does support that.
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Old 09-21-2014, 09:41 AM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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Simple. He didn't know you were married. He thought you two might be an item sooner or later. Is that so mysterious?
OP: Do you wear a wedding ring?
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Old 09-21-2014, 10:52 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Is this the woman with the holey underwear?
I remember the cheating "holy" underwear woman ... good times!!!
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Old 09-21-2014, 10:59 AM
 
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How old are you, OP?
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Old 09-21-2014, 12:42 PM
 
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Ask him what is going on, he is the only one who knows why he asked all the questions.

Your personal life is really none of his business so I would not even venture to guess what his motivation is/was.
I asked him but he did not give me the answer. Its seem like it has been putting off for a while now.
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Old 09-21-2014, 01:29 PM
 
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My question is why is it that you can seemingly with relative ease start getting the warm and fuzzy feeling for a co-worker - if there's no problems in your marriage?
At work place when you can easily see each other almost everyday, getting that kind of attention and so on, it wont be too hard to be caught off guard.
I am not a robot. lol
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Old 09-21-2014, 01:31 PM
 
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At work place when you can easily see each other almost everyday, getting that kind of attention and so on, it wont be too hard to be caught off guard.
I am not a robot. lol
No but you ARE married, which is why all of us are wondering why you care?
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Old 09-21-2014, 02:24 PM
 
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What's going on with him? He's trying to see if he can get into your pants.

What's going on with you? You seem willing to let him try.
I was thinking that way. But there is no sexual innuendo, and touching is as far as fist bump and soft punch on my shoulder. Even though there are a lot of eye contacts with smiles.
I have never initiate on touching him. One thing I did was just respond to his fist bump.
( I find fist bump as a friendly gesture just like guys always do with their buddies).
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Unless he is good at making woman feel secure before he pounce?

I'm not gonna let it happen. I think I know my limit.
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Old 09-21-2014, 02:50 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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I was thinking that way. But there is no sexual innuendo, and touching is as far as fist bump and soft punch on my shoulder. Even though there are a lot of eye contacts with smiles.
I have never initiate on touching him. One thing I did was just respond to his fist bump.
( I find fist bump as a friendly gesture just like guys always do with their buddies).
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Unless he is good at making woman feel secure before he pounce?

I'm not gonna let it happen. I think I know my limit.

So what does it matter what his motive is?
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Old 09-21-2014, 03:00 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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My response to these type of threads has always been to ask your significant other and not strangers on the internet.

I bet your husband will explain his behavior.
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