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This plus the dress/grooming/fitness aspect will do it, as will a more positive attitude towards dating and women. I've seen these change a guy's luck firsthand.
All the other stuff ("I'm still a virgin!" "I'm not rich!" Etc) is nothing a woman would be initially influenced by, because she wouldn't know anyway. You just have to be likable and attractive and get your foot in the door.
I couldn't help but take "5 basic tips for struggling guys with the ladies on this forum" to mean that you are giving tips to guys who are struggling with the female members of City-Data. Alas, there is no hope for such chaps.
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