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up until about 3 weeks ago we had the highest sex drive together than I've had with any other man. At night even during his sleep he would roll over and find me and hold me.
Now he rolls away from me at night, and we don't have sex anymore. He hardly touches me at all, even while I lay naked next to him. He is just not interested.
I looked at the porn sites that he goes to and all he searches for is large women with extra large breasts. I'm a smaller women with small breast.
On my birthday I asked him what can I do to turn him on and he told me with anger in his voice there is nothing I can do to turn him on. He gets mad at me when I ask him is he attracted to me. He gets angry when I bring up the fact that he won't touch me anymore. Now my feelings are getting crushed because every time I try to talk with him about being into me sexually he does not comfort me he only gets mad.
He tells me I'm making this relationship all about sex. But thats not my case. In the beginning we had sex everyday sometimes twice a day. Now we don't at all. A week can go by before we have a 5 minute sex session.
He tells me he loves me. But I don't feel it sometimes
up until about 3 weeks ago we had the highest sex drive together than I've had with any other man. At night even during his sleep he would roll over and find me and hold me.
Now he rolls away from me at night, and we don't have sex anymore. He hardly touches me at all, even while I lay naked next to him. He is just not interested.
I looked at the porn sites that he goes to and all he searches for is large women with extra large breasts. I'm a smaller women with small breast.
On my birthday I asked him what can I do to turn him on and he told me with anger in his voice there is nothing I can do to turn him on. He gets mad at me when I ask him is he attracted to me. He gets angry when I bring up the fact that he won't touch me anymore. Now my feelings are getting crushed because every time I try to talk with him about being into me sexually he does not comfort me he only gets mad.
He tells me I'm making this relationship all about sex. But thats not my case. In the beginning we had sex everyday sometimes twice a day. Now we don't at all. A week can go by before we have a 5 minute sex session.
He tells me he loves me. But I don't feel it sometimes
up until about 3 weeks ago we had the highest sex drive together than I've had with any other man. At night even during his sleep he would roll over and find me and hold me.
Now he rolls away from me at night, and we don't have sex anymore. He hardly touches me at all, even while I lay naked next to him. He is just not interested.
I looked at the porn sites that he goes to and all he searches for is large women with extra large breasts. I'm a smaller women with small breast.
On my birthday I asked him what can I do to turn him on and he told me with anger in his voice there is nothing I can do to turn him on. He gets mad at me when I ask him is he attracted to me. He gets angry when I bring up the fact that he won't touch me anymore. Now my feelings are getting crushed because every time I try to talk with him about being into me sexually he does not comfort me he only gets mad.
He tells me I'm making this relationship all about sex. But thats not my case. In the beginning we had sex everyday sometimes twice a day. Now we don't at all. A week can go by before we have a 5 minute sex session.
He tells me he loves me. But I don't feel it sometimes
Why would you want to stay with someone who has clearly shown they are not attracted to you sexually any longer?
Tell him this is an issue that needs to be discussed without him getting mad or move on and tell him why.
If you cannot have an open honest discussion about this issue it is unlikely you will be able to have an open honest discussion about any important issue.
up until about 3 weeks ago we had the highest sex drive together than I've had with any other man. At night even during his sleep he would roll over and find me and hold me.
Now he rolls away from me at night, and we don't have sex anymore. He hardly touches me at all, even while I lay naked next to him. He is just not interested.
I looked at the porn sites that he goes to and all he searches for is large women with extra large breasts. I'm a smaller women with small breast.
On my birthday I asked him what can I do to turn him on and he told me with anger in his voice there is nothing I can do to turn him on. He gets mad at me when I ask him is he attracted to me. He gets angry when I bring up the fact that he won't touch me anymore. Now my feelings are getting crushed because every time I try to talk with him about being into me sexually he does not comfort me he only gets mad.
He tells me I'm making this relationship all about sex. But thats not my case. In the beginning we had sex everyday sometimes twice a day. Now we don't at all. A week can go by before we have a 5 minute sex session.
He tells me he loves me. But I don't feel it sometimes
"up until about 3 weeks ago we had the highest sex drive together than I've had with any other man. At night even during his sleep he would roll over and find me and hold me. "
OP, according to C-D men, if men have been without sex for some time, they'll be very active with their new gf for the first year or so. Then when they get all the pent-up energy out of their system, they settle down to a dull roar of about twice a week for frequency. If your guy won't discuss the matter with you, then he's giving you no choice but to move on. I don't know about you, but I wouldn't be able to live with the lack of affection (no hugs or cuddles, either, OP?), lack of sex, AND the anger.
It's only been 3 weeks. Maybe he's in a funk over something else. Not every man wants to have sex to feel better about whatever is bothering him. Some withdraw when upset.
Have you asked him what is going on with him in a way that doesn't make it all about you getting some? Have you asked him how he is feeling in general and how you can help him? Something like "You seem off lately. Is everything okay? You can talk to me about anything, I want to be here for you. How can I help?"
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