Fiance Left me for Our Co-worker.

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Originally Posted by sb6044

I know deep down that I surely dodged a bullet. Just stings the way it all went down for sure. I'm from NH, maybe I should have seen that as another red flag, two kids from two dads early on in life. One of many that I'm sure I missed. I will also NEVER date another co-worker, when things go bad, no place to hide. Live and learn I guess.

Yeah she is a fast ass and probably will end up with baby daddy #3. smh. If that isn't a red flag, I don't know what is. Man you are so lucky. I know guys that married women like that and were very unhappy.

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Originally Posted by LifeSurfer

Kids are a deal breaker for me.

Yeah I hate to sound like an ass, but I don't date women with kids. I mean if they are grown past the point that they depend on Mommy than I may consider. A check with two kids and is young would be an immediate turnoff.

It's crazy not so long ago, a woman in her position would have been begging for a guy to date her. Most men would stir clear of that especially at her age. Men have gotten less picky over the years and girls like her are valued as a chick with no kids now. smh.