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Old 09-28-2014, 12:46 PM
 
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I'm in my early 30's (32), and I only went on few dates in my 20's but nothing more. I've also been in 1 relationship my entire life and that was 14 years ago. Only lasted a few months.

Would the fact that I've not been in any relationships or dated anyone in a long time be a problem for women? I realize you don't have to tell your life story to them.
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Old 09-28-2014, 12:50 PM
 
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Don't worry. The right woman for you won't care. The only people who expect you to be a stud with multiple relationships or women are other guys.
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Old 09-28-2014, 12:56 PM
 
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I wouldn't worry about it.

Someone who really likes you, wouldn't care one way or the other.
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Old 09-28-2014, 01:09 PM
 
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you will be fine... don't worry!
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Old 09-28-2014, 03:56 PM
 
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That depends on why. If it's because you're just shy or have been busy with your career then that is fine.
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Old 09-29-2014, 09:15 AM
 
Location: NYC
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You don't have to tell your life story but the fact you have very little experience will show to anyone who can read people.
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Old 09-29-2014, 11:09 PM
 
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I'm in my early 30's (32), and I only went on few dates in my 20's but nothing more. I've also been in 1 relationship my entire life and that was 14 years ago. Only lasted a few months.

Would the fact that I've not been in any relationships or dated anyone in a long time be a problem for women? I realize you don't have to tell your life story to them.
I knew a guy who was 28. I normally don't date guys who are younger.. but he seemed so sweet.. he wasn't very attractive, but I could see myself dating a guy who was inexperienced like him as long as I felt I was treated right..

When you first hit it off with someone, the last thing they do is tally up qualities about you.

Think about it, if you met a lady who was in your shoes, would you care? No. So long as you have good intentions, and are genuine in your efforts, any person looking for an honest and kind-hearted person doesn't care.. not unless maybe they had more dating experience and were afraid that your lack of could build upon resentment or insecurity.. but if you're both honest with yourselves, pride will not get in the way and mutual respect/open communication can really build a solid foundation for you two.
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Old 09-30-2014, 05:43 AM
 
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Could this be bad?

Only you know why you are inexperienced in this area.
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Old 09-30-2014, 05:45 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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No. Go out, meet people, make friends and start dating again. Yes, you don't have to tell your life story to anyone, and who cares how many relationships you had or had not? Stop worrying about it.
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