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No, I am not that stupid. Actually I am playing dumb a bit and I shouldn't have. It's just really hard to break up with someone you have fallen in love with, even if the person has changed. I guess I just needed to wait a bit and catch her in the act of manipulating me, so I can confront her on it and get some closure. I just wanted to see it. That's why I asked that if me changing the anniversary dated counted.
Well I suggested that for our anniversary, I cook her dinner myself. That way we will not have to eat out.
She said that she thinks for an anniversary we should go out, for such an occasion. I named some places to go to dance after we have dinner. She said she didn't want to go dancing and wanted to go out to an actual place for dinner, and not just dance later on only.
She says it's okay for me not to want to eat out and spend as money. She is fine for me saving up money she says. But she says once in a while such as this one, you should spend some money to showy you love your gf, such as this type of occasion.
I told her I can show her I love her by making dinner. She says she doesn't want to do dishes. I said I will do them for her, and she says that I won't and that she will be stuck with them, even though I will and am fine with that perfectly. I have done them with her before, and I don't see the problem. She then said let's just watch a movie instead and forget about dinner.
So, you're playing games. Sounds awesome. And please, keep giving us a play by play of all your conversations. Or - you could grow up, learn to think for yourself, stop playing games, and actually have a mature relationship. It's up to you.
This thread needs to be closed. The OP is borderline looneytunes.
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