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View Poll Results: At what age does being a virgin begin to become a noticeable detriment in dating?
16 1 10.00%
17 1 10.00%
18 1 10.00%
19 0 0%
20 0 0%
21 0 0%
22 0 0%
23 0 0%
24 0 0%
25 1 10.00%
26+ 1 10.00%
Never 5 50.00%
Voters: 10. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 10-09-2014, 08:43 PM
 
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It depends why the guy is a virgin. Here are the reasons why a fully adult male might be a virgin:

(1) Is not capable of finding a woman he wants to screw who is willing to let him screw her

(2) Is capable of the above, may have even had opportunities in the past, but is too shy, too inhibited to go through with it

(3) Is religious (or recently dropped his religion and hasn't yet had a chance to do the stuff he used to not be allowed to do)

(4) Not that interested in sex (Rare!)

 
Old 10-09-2014, 08:51 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Dont tell anyone you're a virgin and it wont matter
 
Old 10-09-2014, 08:56 PM
 
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Dont tell anyone you're a virgin and it wont matter
Terrible idea! You won't get any repeat customers, and thus you will be denied the chance to learn real skills, that you cannot get online or via porn!
 
Old 10-09-2014, 08:59 PM
 
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Originally Posted by DavidRudisha View Post
It depends why the guy is a virgin. Here are the reasons why a fully adult male might be a virgin:

(1) Is not capable of finding a woman he wants to screw who is willing to let him screw her

(2) Is capable of the above, may have even had opportunities in the past, but is too shy, too inhibited to go through with it

(3) Is religious (or recently dropped his religion and hasn't yet had a chance to do the stuff he used to not be allowed to do)

(4) Not that interested in sex (Rare!)
It's not about the sex.

Sure, many male virgins make the mistake of thinking porn is how real people have sex, and this causes major problems in bed. But women more often avoid virgins because of their lack of relationship experience. A person who has never been in love is at a major disadvantage, especially as they get older.

For example, they might think relationships are just about 'screwing'.
 
Old 10-09-2014, 09:03 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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The average age to lose one's virginity is 16 or 17, so it's gradually more and more unusual after that unless you're part of some religious enclave.
 
Old 10-09-2014, 09:04 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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It becomes a detriment when you have to read too many threads about a given subject that is fairly rare... it's like going to the movies and seeing the 35 handicap parking spots empty....... a whole lot of over prep for the few that uses them...

Same goes for virgins.....
 
Old 10-09-2014, 09:19 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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I am a 16-year-old virgin. You're saying I am already at a disadvantage?
I'm going to go out on a limb and say that at 16 you have other, more important things to worry about.

[being a virgin at 16 is the least of your worries]
 
Old 10-09-2014, 09:21 PM
 
Location: LA, CA/ In This Time and Place
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Never a problem at a young age, I would say after 25. But put yourself out there, date around and get relationship experience and you'll have sex. Some older virgins never tried , so don't make that mistake.
 
Old 10-09-2014, 09:43 PM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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