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Well, since you are open to spirituality. Then I would like to share a story.
I lost a boyfriend/fiance to suicide several years ago. In order to heal the emotional wound, I got treatment from a life coach / past life regression therapist. (Her name is Linda Gabriel and she is currently living in Newport Beach. You can google her)
I found out my late boyfriend and I were lovers in our past lives (many many past lives actually) and we were soul mates. But I had other soul mates as well. My late boyfriend and I just chose to reincarnate as couples. He was a warrior died in battle field and I was the one who treated him in our past life.
Obviously you should stay skeptical about this kind of treatment/therapy. But to me, it is a turning point of my life. You can start looking at people around you with new perspective. you got a nagging wife? maybe she entered your life to teach you a lesson. You got a gay son whom you cannot accept? Well maybe he is trying to teach you something as well. These people are called Karmic soul mates.
I dated a lot of men, but I only truly loved four men my entire life. I know for a fact that each of them came to my life to teach me a lesson. I am particularly attracted to the military kind, I think it has a lot to do with past life if the past life concept is real.
It has been love at first sight or first talk for me with all four men I loved. There are just something about them that are so special to me. My therapist told me that is called "soul recognition. " as if I recognized them when I saw them.
People have many soul mates, that is why one shouldn't give up on love.
I have told this on here before, but we had started dating a couple of months prior to my being diagnosed with a tumor in my breast. I stood in the parking lot of a hospital with snow coming down, and told my new-ish boyfriend that I totally understood if he was not up for potentially being the guy who does bedside vigil at surgeries and treatments, and that I certainly didn't expect that he owed it to me, somebody he was just getting to know, to sign on for all of that, essentially giving him an out. I didn't want him to feel pressured into staying with me if he wasn't sure he was all in, and at that point, I would have completely understood him not being all in yet.
I came home to a card a day later with a note from him saying that he knew I was scared, but that he'd waited a long time to meet me, that life without me in it was unimaginable for him, and that he wasn't going anywhere. He went to my surgery, took care of me in recovery, and celebrated with me when the mass removed turned out to be a benign tumor. I knew he was the real deal, and a little over a year later, he became my husband.
We are both spiritual practitioners of our respective faiths, but aren't super holy rolling about it; however, we both believe that a higher power put us in one another's lives at the right time and in the right way.
I have told this on here before, but we had started dating a couple of months prior to my being diagnosed with a tumor in my breast. I stood in the parking lot of a hospital with snow coming down, and told my new-ish boyfriend that I totally understood if he was not up for potentially being the guy who does bedside vigil at surgeries and treatments, and that I certainly didn't expect that he owed it to me, somebody he was just getting to know, to sign on for all of that, essentially giving him an out. I didn't want him to feel pressured into staying with me if he wasn't sure he was all in, and at that point, I would have completely understood him not being all in yet.
I came home to a card a day later with a note from him saying that he knew I was scared, but that he'd waited a long time to meet me, that life without me in it was unimaginable for him, and that he wasn't going anywhere. He went to my surgery, took care of me in recovery, and celebrated with me when the mass removed turned out to be a benign tumor. I knew he was the real deal, and a little over a year later, he became my husband.
We are both spiritual practitioners of our respective faiths, but aren't super holy rolling about it; however, we both believe that a higher power put us in one another's lives at the right time and in the right way.
I have told this on here before, but we had started dating a couple of months prior to my being diagnosed with a tumor in my breast. I stood in the parking lot of a hospital with snow coming down, and told my new-ish boyfriend that I totally understood if he was not up for potentially being the guy who does bedside vigil at surgeries and treatments, and that I certainly didn't expect that he owed it to me, somebody he was just getting to know, to sign on for all of that, essentially giving him an out. I didn't want him to feel pressured into staying with me if he wasn't sure he was all in, and at that point, I would have completely understood him not being all in yet.
I came home to a card a day later with a note from him saying that he knew I was scared, but that he'd waited a long time to meet me, that life without me in it was unimaginable for him, and that he wasn't going anywhere. He went to my surgery, took care of me in recovery, and celebrated with me when the mass removed turned out to be a benign tumor. I knew he was the real deal, and a little over a year later, he became my husband.
We are both spiritual practitioners of our respective faiths, but aren't super holy rolling about it; however, we both believe that a higher power put us in one another's lives at the right time and in the right way.
I have told this on here before, but we had started dating a couple of months prior to my being diagnosed with a tumor in my breast. I stood in the parking lot of a hospital with snow coming down, and told my new-ish boyfriend that I totally understood if he was not up for potentially being the guy who does bedside vigil at surgeries and treatments, and that I certainly didn't expect that he owed it to me, somebody he was just getting to know, to sign on for all of that, essentially giving him an out. I didn't want him to feel pressured into staying with me if he wasn't sure he was all in, and at that point, I would have completely understood him not being all in yet.
I came home to a card a day later with a note from him saying that he knew I was scared, but that he'd waited a long time to meet me, that life without me in it was unimaginable for him, and that he wasn't going anywhere. He went to my surgery, took care of me in recovery, and celebrated with me when the mass removed turned out to be a benign tumor. I knew he was the real deal, and a little over a year later, he became my husband.
We are both spiritual practitioners of our respective faiths, but aren't super holy rolling about it; however, we both believe that a higher power put us in one another's lives at the right time and in the right way.
How awesome!
When I was younger I was teased because I was picky on who I dated and received a lot of crap for it. I prayed about who my future husband was and one night I had a dream. In the dream, I saw a guy who was dark haired, just a little taller than I was and he was very thin. He had a certain stance that I remembered after the dream. It was at the local mall and he was in front of Kays Jewelers and talking to a few people.
Fast forward years later, I was working and the new guy ran up the stairs to clock in. I thought he was good looking, we became friends. During this time, he was trying to get me to date him...which I wouldn't do since we worked together. I eventually transferred locations and then we gave it a go.
He knew before we started dating that I was the one for him. It took me a little longer. One night when I was talking to a guy to potentially date, I was telling him about my best friend and that he would have to accept that friendship. At that moment, I remembered my dream (which he fit to a T) and then realized that I couldn't live my life without him. It was at that very moment that I knew he was the one for me. We literally dated for a couple of months and he proposed....with a ring he bought at Kays. After we got married I told him about the dream and he was surprised about how much the details matched him. It has been a roller coaster, but I won't trade it for nothing.
Throughout my younger years I dated a lot of horrid girls, at first I thought they were the person I always wanted only to find out a few months later they were a completely different person.
When I met my wife I could not believe what a good person she was and the more I got to know her the more I realized I had a keeper.
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