How can someone stop thinking everyone is out of their league?

[Katnan]

Originally Posted by jma501

Way to avoid the question by asking another in return.
To answer your question I come to see if any of the posts will refute twenty years of evidence that women are not interested in me. Some come close but not completely. So I keep looking.

So you look for ways to continue to feel badly about your lack of love-life? Maybe you should find a forum for that issue.

[Djuna]

Originally Posted by jma501

To answer your question I come to see if any of the posts will refute twenty years of evidence that women are not interested in me. Some come close but not completely. So I keep looking.

So you come to this forum with your incessant negativity and thinly veiled dislike of women to see if any of us are going to be interested in you? Bizarre.

You are simply pouring fuel on that fire of yours and wondering why you keep getting burnt.

[jma501]

Originally Posted by Djuna

So you come to this forum with your incessant negativity and thinly veiled dislike of women to see if any of us are going to be interested in you? Bizarre.

You are simply pouring fuel on that fire of yours and wondering why you keep getting burnt.

I am not incessantly negative nor have a dislike for women at all. Quite frankly I don't care if any of you are interested in me. I only come to see if there are any posts that would change my mind about women's disinterest. That maybe I might be wrong. So far no such luck.

[jma501]

Originally Posted by Liberty2011

So you look for ways to continue to feel badly about your lack of love-life? Maybe you should find a forum for that issue.

I don't feel badly at all nor is that my intention for coming here. My lack of a love life is an "it is what it is" thing.

[Frayzer]

Originally Posted by bson1257

If a guy can't date because he thinks all women are out of his league, what should he do? I've tried getting in shape but that didn't make a difference at all.

There's no such things as "leagues." That's just an excuse for you going out and not meeting women whom you think are attractive.