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Old 10-17-2014, 06:31 PM
 
Location: canada
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I don't get it. I was texting a girl all week and she was texting back/calling happily all week. The conversations were good and both parties (her and I) were laughing, talking and enjoying all of the texting.

Well I thought since we are talking so much I should ask her to hang out, so I throw a text out there "wnna do this activity over the weekend with me?"


literally the moment I sends it she hasn't responded or said one thing since and its almost been a full day.

What does this mean? I have wasted the past week talking to her?


should i just try calling her?





so confused...
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Old 10-17-2014, 06:33 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Were you talking or texting? Ain't the same.

Yes, call her. Should have done that on Tuesday.
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Old 10-17-2014, 06:35 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Married woman.
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Old 10-17-2014, 06:37 PM
 
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I don't get it. I was texting a girl all week and she was texting back/calling happily all week. The conversations were good and both parties (her and I) were laughing, talking and enjoying all of the texting.

Well I thought since we are talking so much I should ask her to hang out, so I throw a text out there "wnna do this activity over the weekend with me?"

literally the moment I sends it she hasn't responded or said one thing since and its almost been a full day.

What does this mean? I have wasted the past week talking to her?

should i just try calling her?

so confused...

What are you confused about? You were not "talking" you were texting, two completely different things and next time you should use the phone part of that texting device and call her to ask her out.

Actually, it means she has wasted the past week texting with you just to be asked out with a text instead of an actual phone call.
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Old 10-17-2014, 06:42 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Married woman.

Or in committed relationship. She could just be wanting a texting buddy.

I'd call her and see what the deal is, OP. If you get no answer, move along.
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Old 10-17-2014, 06:45 PM
 
Location: Denver and Boston
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What does this mean? I have wasted the past week talking to her?

should i just try calling her?
Calling to ask her out might have helped. But maybe not, who knows. Calling now that you have already asked her out via text would only come off as desperate. IMO.

Did you really waste an entire week? Or maybe it was just a couple hours. Some women get offended if you ask them to do something on the weekend latter than wed.
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Old 10-17-2014, 06:48 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Or in committed relationship. She could just be wanting a texting buddy.

I'd call her and see what the deal is, OP. If you get no answer, move along.
This is true.Or has doubts.
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Old 10-17-2014, 07:15 PM
 
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Call her. Not only is calling someone instead of texting more personal, but is also does not leave you hanging like texting does.
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Old 10-17-2014, 07:24 PM
 
Location: NYC
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You're not alone.


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Old 10-17-2014, 07:37 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Just some chick who wanted some attention. Move on. You don't even know her.
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