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Until you learn to be comfortable in your own skin no one else is going to be comfortable next to it.
Learn to enjoy your own company!!! There is no need to ever be lonely when you do.
The problem with being comfortable in your own skin of which I am actually, is that one can become too comfortable this way and another person will change the status quo so to speak. The only time I ever felt true loneliness was riding my motorcycle. Just me, the bike, the road, superb handling (they handle best with no passenger), and the wind. Nobody to talk to. No radio or music. No heater, etc. I grew to despise it. You'd think after nearly being killed on it one night would have done that but it didn't, I actually got a bigger bike. I suppose this leads to the desire to not be alone anymore and where there's a will there's a way.
The problem with being comfortable in your own skin of which I am actually, is that one can become too comfortable this way and another person will change the status quo so to speak. The only time I ever felt true loneliness was riding my motorcycle. Just me, the bike, the road, superb handling (they handle best with no passenger), and the wind. Nobody to talk to. No radio or music. No heater, etc. I grew to despise it. You'd think after nearly being killed on it one night would have done that but it didn't, I actually got a bigger bike. I suppose this leads to the desire to not be alone anymore and where there's a will there's a way.
I did not tell you above to "be yourself".
I told you to be your BEST self - big difference.
If you truly do not wish to be alone anymore then you are going to have to accept the fact that only you can do anything about that.
Simply put, get outside of your comfort zone and start doing some things differently
I told you to be your BEST self - big difference...Simply put, get outside of your comfort zone and start doing some things differently
Actually I have been doing things differently as in better, new, improved combined with a desire for perfection. For example I take a different route each time to the same grocery store each time to alleviate the incredible boredom that prevails.
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