Why do women give guys "chances"? (family, kids, advice)

[JustJulia]

Originally Posted by fleetiebelle

I think the point is supposed to be that women are the worst. Or something.

Is pretty much every advice here: Ditch him/her and move on?

In this thread women are chastised for being too hasty to advise people to break up. Now we give too many chances. Whatever fits the demonization du jour, I suppose.

[NilaJones]

Women do it because they are desperate to get laid and/or be loved. Kind of like men.

'Should I give him a chance?' is shorthand for 'Should I bang this guy who is an obvious liar/scuzz/otherwise fundamentally incompatible, just because I am horny/lonely?'

[Adi from the Brunswicks]

Originally Posted by NilaJones

Women do it because they are desperate to get laid and/or be loved. Kind of like men.

TBH, I've never met a woman desperate for sex before, mostly due to the pains of pregnancy.

Perhaps if guys actually understood the pain of having children, they would think twice about sex.

[fleetiebelle]

Originally Posted by Adi from the Brunswicks

TBH, I've never met a woman desperate for sex before, mostly due to the pains of pregnancy.

Perhaps if guys actually understood the pain of having children, they would think twice about sex. Bottom line, men hate their kids.

Say what, now? And you do know that pregnancy is largely preventable due to the wonders of modern medicine, right?

[ChessieMom]

Originally Posted by Adi from the Brunswicks

TBH, I've never met a woman desperate for sex before, mostly due to the pains of pregnancy.

Perhaps if guys actually understood the pain of having children, they would think twice about sex. Bottom line, men hate their kids.

Huh?

[Adi from the Brunswicks]

Originally Posted by fleetiebelle

Say what, now? And you do know that pregnancy is largely preventable due to the wonders of modern medicine, right?

Yes, I know that. Still doesn't change the fact that men don't think twice about a woman's standpoint before sex.

[convextech]

Originally Posted by Adi from the Brunswicks

TBH, I've never met a woman desperate for sex before, mostly due to the pains of pregnancy.

Perhaps if guys actually understood the pain of having children, they would think twice about sex. Bottom line, men hate their kids.

Wait, what?

Most women love their children so much they forget about how painful pregnancy is. It certainly didn't stop me from jumping my mans' bones as soon as I was cleared by the doctor.

So, you hate your kids because of the pain they gave you during pregnancy? You might need more than birth control.

[Sydney123]

What! My dad hates me?

[Adi from the Brunswicks]

Really sorry about the last part. That was a bit extreme, I'll admit. I've changed my post. After effects of having a shouting match with dad .

[ChessieMom]

Originally Posted by Adi from the Brunswicks

Really sorry about the last part. That was a bit extreme, I'll admit. I've changed my post. After effects of having a shouting match with dad .

Ah. Angry at the keyboard is never a good thing.

(I don't think I even know any fathers that don't adore their kids!)