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Originally Posted by MsLili84
I ran into someone I used to date last night at a nightclub. Here's a little background info. We dated for about 6 months. I broke it off because he acted very hot and cold. He also wasn't ready to commit. Anyway, he would still keep in touch after that. He wished me happy birthday and he texted me twice after that. However, the last 2 times that he texted me, I ignored him.
2 months later I run into him at the nightclub. He seemed to be having a good time but he was definitely acting weird around me. I asked him how his family was and he ignored me and changed the subject. Then I called him out and he got pissed. He told me "this isn't a conversation for the club". Then he blurted out that his mom has cancer and that he's no longer at his job. I told him that I'm sorry and I didn't know. Then he brought up the fact that I "played" him and completely ignored his texts from 2 months ago. I basically told him I don't want any friction between us. He says "Even if we're not together, I still want your input and opinion on certain things." Then he left. (sooooo dramatic lol)
I was hoping to still be cool with him and be on friendly terms, but I'm confused as to why he was so pissed at me. I really want to text him and let him know that it was good to see him. I don't know.
What do you guys think?
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Geez, tell me you are not really this thick.
You ignored him, likely at a time he could really have used a friend.
Then you see him and want to act all buddy buddy like things are just fine between you.
Don't text him now unless you are really sure you can be a good friend while he's struggling with his mom's cancer and job loss. He doesn't need any more grief.
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