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But seriously its on you just as much as them. In my experience you have to approach the issue gently or kinda egg him on so he feels like it's his own idea....men can be very sensitive if you start insulting their performance in bed. "I like when you..." Spoken in the heat of the moment is gona be more effective than "I wish you would xxxx more wah poor me"
It's like they're not even excited. Like, "Ok...let me get a condom". That's nice and all but there's no passion & I'm just tired of getting bored halfway through intercourse (trying to keep it PG). I want it to feel like they are actually super into me and WANT me. That's all.
You can't request passion - or you will get a "fake" passion.
It never crossed your mind that, maybe, you are not a type of a girl that guys are super crazy about, and can't wait to throw you on a floor, rip off your clothes...and make a passionate love?
I like guys to be aggressive/dominant in bed but it feels so hopeless, Even when I'm w/ guys who I think are alphas. I want a guy who wants to push me against the wall, hike my dress etc.
Unless it's been discussed beforehand, I imagine most guys would inclined not to do anything that could come off as too aggressive/violent because as others have said, it's gotten other men into trouble. They need to trust you as much as you need to trust them before they get rough.
You'll have to change your tactics otherwise you'll likely stay disappointed the majority of the time.
I like guys to be aggressive/dominant in bed but it feels so hopeless, Even when I'm w/ guys who I think are alphas. I want a guy who wants to push me against the wall, hike my dress etc. Or throw me on the bed and show me who's boss, etc. But all the guys I date are never like that. They might talk big game or text but irl they normally aren't like that >.<
I have tried communicating what I want but then I feel lame having to ask for it. Only bc I don't want to have to ASK, just want them to do it lol. It's so annoying but I don't know what to do about it? I just feel unsatisfied. Even without the aggressive stuff where is the passion??
Bc love generally isn't about violence, it's about, well, love. Check out some gangbangers, you'd probably find what you're looking for.
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