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My friend, if being yourself is not enough, maybe she's not the one for you. However if there is an interest she pursues that you believe you could undertake as well, maybe you should ask to join her. You don't want to fundamentally change who you are, but opening yourself up to new interests may help.
I am just a bored person in general. I mean I have a job and everything and I like to go out and have fun but theres no real BIG COOL thing about me. I don't climb mountains, I don't volunteer to help needy people, I do no extreme sports or sports of any kind, Ive got like a few good friends...
You are who you are. And you seem to be in tune with it. Usually people have the opposite problem. That is they think everything about them is of utmost interest to all others. You at least don't seem to suffer from an inflated sense of self. That alone has an immense amount of appeal to some women. Maybe the one you are interested in. Don't try to be something you're not. If you're patently "uncool" then embrace it. Don't try to force anything because you'll likely fall flat on your face.
I am just a bored person in general. I mean I have a job and everything and I like to go out and have fun but theres no real BIG COOL thing about me. I don't climb mountains, I don't volunteer to help needy people, I do no extreme sports or sports of any kind, Ive got like a few good friends...
Are you OK with this? ^^
If you're asking this question about keeping her interested, it means you are insecure about your own lifestyle.
So if YOU don't think you're enough for her, she won't either.
I started seeing this girl.. She is always busy and always has a lot of cool things with friends or her own hobbies/stuff going on.
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Originally Posted by goofball83
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I am just a bored person in general. I mean I have a job and everything and I like to go out and have fun but theres no real BIG COOL thing about me. I don't climb mountains, I don't volunteer to help needy people, I do no extreme sports or sports of any kind, Ive got like a few good friends...
So get some hobbies. Use this as a chance to try some new activities to find something that turns you on. Or ask her, after you know her better, if you can join her in some of her cool activities.
You don't have to compete with her to be cool. But if you think you're kind of a dud (sounds like you're beginning to wonder if you are), do something about that. Branch out with your life. Experiment. Take a couple of classes, learn a new skill or two. Photography. Hang-gliding. Whatever.
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