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Old 11-19-2014, 08:05 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Old 11-19-2014, 01:01 PM
 
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I was on a first date with a guy in his mid-40s, I was 30. We were having dinner in a restaurant. At one point he said, "You have such a pretty face, I want to cut your head off and bring it home with me so I can look at it all day." Then, he laughed. TRUE STORY!!!

I hauled ass as quickly as I could! Good thing it was in a very public place on a busy street or I would have panicked!

This guy pursued me for about a year after that. Kept texting and messaging me on chat even though I wasn't responding. Cue in the theme song to Psycho! Eeek!!!

Oh, and the cherry on top was during the course of the date, he revealed that he was married with kids. He said he was only using his wife because she was rich!
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Old 11-20-2014, 03:50 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I was on a first date with a guy in his mid-40s, I was 30. We were having dinner in a restaurant. At one point he said, "You have such a pretty face, I want to cut your head off and bring it home with me so I can look at it all day." Then, he laughed. TRUE STORY!!!

I hauled ass as quickly as I could! Good thing it was in a very public place on a busy street or I would have panicked!

This guy pursued me for about a year after that. Kept texting and messaging me on chat even though I wasn't responding. Cue in the theme song to Psycho! Eeek!!!

Oh, and the cherry on top was during the course of the date, he revealed that he was married with kids. He said he was only using his wife because she was rich!
OMG You dodged a bullet with that one!
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Old 11-21-2014, 10:17 AM
 
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I was on a first date with a guy in his mid-40s, I was 30. We were having dinner in a restaurant. At one point he said, "You have such a pretty face, I want to cut your head off and bring it home with me so I can look at it all day." Then, he laughed. TRUE STORY!!!

I hauled ass as quickly as I could! Good thing it was in a very public place on a busy street or I would have panicked!

This guy pursued me for about a year after that. Kept texting and messaging me on chat even though I wasn't responding. Cue in the theme song to Psycho! Eeek!!!

Oh, and the cherry on top was during the course of the date, he revealed that he was married with kids. He said he was only using his wife because she was rich!
Wow. Quite a horror, indeed!
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Old 11-21-2014, 10:36 AM
 
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I've actually had more creepy stranger experiences in my life than dating ones, which is strange I guess because I used to joke that when I started dating I'd end up locked in someone's trunk somewhere, but anyway.

There was this guy I was friends with and thinking about dating a long time ago who used to constantly tell me he had driven past my house and past parks in my neighborhood looking for me. It weirded me out. I'd think "why don't you just call me and we'll hang out".

When we finally did date, I found out he really had a moody side. It'd just appear out of nowhere I'm not kidding. He told me stories like the one where he purposely scared the crap out of a little girl one Halloween and she was so freaked out. And how he started following another kid after the kid kept looking at him, but he didn't do anything to him.

Then there was an ex-boyfriend of mine who was verbally abusive and used to talk about his crazy driving stories to the point I didn't even want to ride anywhere with him. He'd try to feed gum to squirrels, and one time insisted that when I was laying down on my bed and he jumped across me and I kicked him on impulse, that meant I didn't trust him.
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Old 11-21-2014, 10:40 AM
 
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I've actually had more creepy stranger experiences in my life than dating ones, which is strange I guess because I used to joke that when I started dating I'd end up locked in someone's trunk somewhere, but anyway.

There was this guy I was friends with and thinking about dating a long time ago who used to constantly tell me he had driven past my house and past parks in my neighborhood looking for me. It weirded me out. I'd think "why don't you just call me and we'll hang out".

When we finally did date, I found out he really had a moody side. It'd just appear out of nowhere I'm not kidding. He told me stories like the one where he purposely scared the crap out of a little girl one Halloween and she was so freaked out. And how he started following another kid after the kid kept looking at him, but he didn't do anything to him.

Then there was an ex-boyfriend of mine who was verbally abusive and used to talk about his crazy driving stories to the point I didn't even want to ride anywhere with him. He'd try to feed gum to squirrels, and one time insisted that when I was laying down on my bed and he jumped across me and I kicked him on impulse, that meant I didn't trust him.
I'm glad you were able to spot and avoid danger. Scary, truly scary..

I dated a guy who used to answer his door w/a gun. I didn't believe him until I witnessed the horror.

He used to go off on how "there are a lot of crazies out there, you have to be careful."

Paranoia + a gun? = no thanks!
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Old 11-21-2014, 10:44 AM
 
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I'm glad you were able to spot and avoid danger. Scary, truly scary..

I dated a guy who used to answer his door w/a gun. I didn't believe him until I witnessed the horror.

He used to go off on how "there are a lot of crazies out there, you have to be careful."

Paranoia + a gun? = no thanks!
I have an uncle like that lol.
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Old 11-22-2014, 04:12 PM
 
Location: Florida
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23/F/KS: "When I was younger, I blacked out and burned my cat's kittens, I think that's because my brother abused me"
I was 15 at the time...
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Old 11-23-2014, 05:44 PM
 
Location: PANAMA
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I was on a first date with a guy in his mid-40s, I was 30. We were having dinner in a restaurant. At one point he said, "You have such a pretty face, I want to cut your head off and bring it home with me so I can look at it all day." Then, he laughed. TRUE STORY!!!
With a nice "chianti"....

Damn I imagine the bastard son of Rob Riggle and Hannibal Lecter.
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Old 11-23-2014, 09:52 PM
 
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OMG...I am laughing...and am horrified at myself for laughing...

I am relieved some of the posters here made it out whole & hearty, LOL. Yiiiiiiiiiiikes.

The thing about taking the date's head home just...OMG.
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