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Or you can just approach someone you're interested in and see if they are interested too. If they are then great, if not that's fine too. Just suck it up and move on. The sun will still come up tomorrow.
All women that I'm interested appear to be out of my league, since they either reject me or treat me as if I'm lucky to have them (suggesting that they are out of my league).
It's obvious when I'm out of a woman's league (the few times this has happened). I can basically do no wrong with these women.
I don't relate to life and dating this way. That scale only rates people on looks. There's a lot more to what makes a "10" than just looks. If someone has the best looks but is psychologically damaged or a jerk, that brings 'em down to a 5, if that.
So, whatever.
Most people are not psychologically damaged.
So what you're saying is that to be a 10, a person needs to be extremely good-looking and sane. Most people are sane.
What, height? I will admit, women can be stupid about that at times, especially young ones. I had a thing for taller guys in my early 20s. A preference, in the true sense, because I would go out with guys who weren't tall, too. Height only confers so much of an advantage for so long, though. Then women often grow out of it, no pun intended.
I did not specifically mention this, but, yes, of course this play into the attractiveness rating. If a person is disadvantaged in this area, then you must take 2-3 points off their attractiveness (so it will bring a person with an "8" face down to a "5-6" on the scale) because it is so important.
OP, have you met JBT1980 yet? He's posted on this thread a few times. You two would make great roomies. Perhaps you should DM each other and look into getting an apartment together or something.
Yes, I realize that. I don't agree with the people who say there aren't leagues. I've been saying that from Day One on this sub-forum. Not sure where you've been.
My point is that people who think they will NEVER find ANYone because they are mediocre-looking is stupid, and going overseas isn't going to change that. So, then what? Guy brings home a wife who loves him for his wallet? So basically they buy a wife like a guy in Vegas buys a hooker and pretend it's love.
You are saying this as a person that obviously has not been to these countries. Women value certain features more than others in these places. Also, they are less hung up on looks, in general.
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Yeah, that works out well--until they come home one day and find her in bed with a hot young guy her own age (because you know it's usually 40-somethings bringing home 20-year-olds).
Have you personally seen this? I'm in the military and I have seen MANY of these marriages. Most of them work out and don't end up with the wife cheating.
Also, I would be the girl's age if I went overseas now.
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And how is that any different than catering to a gold-digger? Only difference I can see is one of degree: American gold-digger looks for $250K or more, Third World gold-digger looks for $50K. Still getting with a man for his money, just like a prostitute.
OP, have you met JBT1980 yet? He's posted on this thread a few times. You two would make great roomies. Perhaps you should DM each other and look into getting an apartment together or something.
Yeah, that's pretty much how it works. Of course they (women) will try to deny it and spew a bunch of platitudes and and high minded BS to throw you off balance and try to make you think you don't know what you know. They're just doing this because they have their own agenda that is fundamentally at odds with yours.
So you know what your league is and what you should stay away from. Also, if you are a 6 or below, stay away from online dating.
At least for me, it's about minimizing rejection.
A reasonable and imo obvious answer. I am not going to read the entire thread, which is no doubt a giggle fest and more proclaimations about how numbering systems are childish, meaningless, etc.... Have you figured out yet that 80% of the posts on this forum are from women, and that most women don't like numbering systems? (for those white knight men that don't like numbering systems... no, I am not interested in your opinion). Whatever happened to DennyCrane?
A reasonable and imo obvious answer. I am not going to read the entire thread, which is no doubt more proclaimations about how numbering systems are childish, meaningless, etc.... Have you figured out yet that 80% of the posts on this forum are from women, and that most women don't like numbering systems? (for those white knight men that don't like numbering systems... no, I am not interested in your opinion). Whatever happened to DennyCrane?
It's good to see that some of the more logical posters have made their way to this thread.
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