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I guess you are not familiar with her other threads, or read this one all the way through.
No one is saying that she has to have sex if she is making out. We have been telling her it is unwise to invite strangers into her bed, lie about her virginity and then deny them the sex they were hoping for/expecting.
Lol They are not entitled to sex just because she invited them into her bed, it's not her fault if that is what they were expecting. Either way...OP if this guy doesn't call you back just be thankful he let his intentions be known early on, you may have dodged a bullet.
Lol They are not entitled to sex just because she invited them into her bed, it's not her fault if that is what they were expecting. Either way...OP if this guy doesn't call you back just be thankful he let his intentions be known early on, you may have dodged a bullet.
Yes I know that. I see you are determined to miss the point. Have a nice day.
When I first meet a guy I do not think I need to share that personal information with him. I'm not lying by not bringing it up.
You don't think it is appropriate to share personal information with a guy you just met yet it is just fine to tease him with making out, invite him to sleep in your bed and then tell him no sex?
Do you know how lucky you are that you have not been raped yet or beaten to a bloody pulp or both or worse?
You don't think it is appropriate to share personal information with a guy you just met yet it is just fine to tease him with making out, invite him to sleep in your bed and then tell him no sex?
Do you know how lucky you are that you have not been raped yet or beaten to a bloody pulp or both or worse?
Okay. But me being a virgin bears no consequence on whether this guy is a potential rapist or not. Just because I'm not a virgin doesn't mean he would be any different of a person..
Okay. But me being a virgin bears no consequence on whether this guy is a potential rapist or not. Just because I'm not a virgin doesn't mean he would be any different of a person..
What does that mean? I'm a double major in computer science and biology at a pretty good state university. What about you, huh?
OP:
What I find frustrating about you is that obviously you are book smart, but according to your actions mentioned in your posts, you do not come across as street smart.
You have to use your brain at school.
Why can you not use your brain regarding your sexuality and your social life regarding the opposite sex and make wise decisions?
What about you, huh?
Regarding the bolded part in pink.
Exactly what are you implying regarding that sentence?
What does that mean? I'm a double major in computer science and biology at a pretty good state university. What about you, huh?
So are a million other students, not really that impressive and you completely missed the point of my post.
I have several pieces of paper that say I went to classes, turned in all the required work and got good grades, what exactly is your point in writing the above statement?
I'm also own my own business in a traditionally male dominated profession that has nothing to do with any of the pieces of paper I have tucked away in my bookcase that says I'm smart.
Just because someone 'looks' like they are a good person or they don't push you into something immediately does not mean they actually are a good person who won't rape you the next time you tease them with making out and then tell them no.
Do you understand any of this? Do you understand why it is dangerous to do what you are doing?
Do you understand that being a virgin has absolutely nothing to do with any of this situation?
It is the making out with someone you just met AND inviting them to sleep in your bed even though you just met them a couple days earlier.
What I find frustrating about you is that obviously you are book smart, but according to your actions mentioned in your posts, you do not come across as street smart.
You have to use your brain at school.
Why can you not use your brain regarding your sexuality and your social life regarding the opposite sex and make wise decisions?
That is something people get confused. A girl I know puts alot of stock in being in law school, using that for excuse on how smart she is. but she got involved with a guy she knew had a girlfriend and only wanted sex, then she complains and whines he shows her no respect. Duh. Then she says she's not slutty, because she's only been with 2 guys, that doesn't matter either. A **** in the dictionary says nothing about "sleeping with lots of men." The definition I saw was an immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute. And she does fit that, since she said she'd have sex with him if he agreed to contact her alot and talk to her outside of sex, and is fine helping him cheat on another woman, calling said woman ugly, stupid and fat, and wanting her boyfriend to dump her. She's just a prostitute who's getting no money.
She's in law school, but sleeping with this guy thinking he's going to magically change, and love her after 1 year. You can be totally book smart, a real intellectual. But have no street smarts, or common sense.
Another guy I know. A war veteran, killed tons of people, smart, good tactician, very scientific. but when he first had to take care of a sick kid, he was completely lost. Didn't know how to cook, or anything.
So, being smart in school, or books doesn't really exempt one from being naive with dating and men, or anything social.
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