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Depends.
I cannot stand another me in a lot of ways. For example, I cannot stand fellow artist.
I am Libertarian Republican, I am attracted to the same kind.
I am athletic, I am attracted to the same kind.
I am a good person, I am attracted to those who have kind hearts.
I am not a bully, and I find bullies the least attractive.
I love a super hero / bad boy with heart of gold because I have always been a goody two shoes with a lot of anger/rage/internal conflicts.
Not polar. To me, that will lead to a volatile relationship. Because if you're too different, it will cause arguments, and alot of head-butting.
But opposite on some things sure, maybe for some balance.
For example, I am shy, neurotic and not a leader type. I would like a SO more level-headed, and take-charge. Now I don't want a guy who's shy. I also don't want obnoxious, and doesn't know how to act in public. There's a middle ground with the 2 extremes.
So, I would want a guy similar to me in terms of core beliefs, religious beliefs, and who was interested in the same things I was. Not everything of course, but enough that we'd have some common ground and chemistry. But opposite in other areas.
Depends on the level of opposition. If you like to go out and do things, yet they never want to go and do anything that isn't going to work. However, if you're both open to new experiences, it can help you both grow
No, not at all. I seriously could not imagine being with some woman so totally different from me. What would be the point of that? I'd rather just be by myself. I know some people really believe in that "opposites attract" stuff. I did that once and it was the worst mistake I ever made. She hated traveling anywhere, didn't like any of the music that I liked, didn't like to try new foods, hated sports and was extremely extroverted. Needless to say it crashed and burned.
No. They have to have things in common to create a foundation.
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